Read this please?
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Thread Topic: Read this please?
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Tess Gillett NoviceAlright, if u want u could email me at tessgillett15@gmail[dot]com (replace [dot] with .)
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Alright.
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Tess Gillett NoviceOk thanks ^_^ and i have a question...do u like...can u help people? like...they tell u a problem or question or something...and u talk to them about it?
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Br0wnies: Of course. Do you need to talk about something?
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Tess Gillett NoviceUm, yes actually...thats what i wanted u to email me for. i would rather talk about it through email becuz i dont want outside people to see my problem.u understand that right?
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Br0wnies: Yeah, I do. I'll email you.
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Tess Gillett Noviceok thanks
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I tried to send an email but it says that your email is invalid.
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Tess Gillett Noviceoh ok...hm...maybe its becuz i have gmail and u have yahoo? .-.
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Yeah. I guess so.
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Tess Gillett Noviceeh...ok...well heres my problem. im in this relationship with this guy (im gay), but the problem is, is that i have never actually met him face to face. we are a few states apart. i met him on this app called doodle club,and it turned into a relationship.then we started emailing, calling and texting each other. but when i heard him over the phone he sounded like a female. and when i asked for pictures of him, he sends the same one. or the ones he sends are slightly different. im not sure if he is who he says he is, but i really do like him. any advice?
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Well, I seem to think that love is love, no matter what. If you love them, you should be able to accept and still love them even if they've haven't completely told the truth. Because that's what love is, am I right? Love is the true bond between two people, whether it is online or not online, and the acceptance and affection towards each other and feeling like you're confident around them and you feel this swelling in your heart that is almost going to burst if you store any more love for that person in it. Love is being comfortable around that significant other and being with them through thick and thin.
Which brings me to the point - he or she still have lied to you, whoever they are. I feel like they are not comfortable enough to show them their real face, if you truly believe that the person you're talking to is really a female and not a male. They probably feel like you're not going to like them as much when they show you their real face, so they hide behind a fake one. Of course, if this is really a woman, maybe she has some weird thing going on, but if the voice is girly, it still possibly could be a male, considering some homoseuxals sound girly (no offense intended).
If you love them, you could confront them and ask them what's going on. If they seem startled and confused about why you're asking something like that out of the blue, drop it and save it for later. You want to get as much trust as you can get before you make a beeline to ask something like that. If you feel like they trust you enough then you can politely ask them something similar to the topic and work your way around and to it, basically. -
Tess Gillett NoviceOk...yeah...that makes sense....but what if i was a fake as well? how would i tell them?
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The best thing to do is probably be honest with them, and if they realize that you're strong enough to admit that to them, they might be motivated to do the same.
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Tess Gillett NoviceYou're right....but im just nervous that they will hate me...and end the relationship....
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