how do you get over an ex?
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Thread Topic: how do you get over an ex?
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so me and my ex were pretty close when we dated, and it was the longest relationship I've ever been in. she was my everything but the breakup wasn't pretty. i switched a class last year so that i wouldnt have to see her. I still see her in the halls, and checking my class i can see that she's in my next class. does anyone have advice or tips to finally deal with the breakup and move on?
ps: i tried to be mature and talk it out but she didn't want to hear it. she didnt talk to me about it, and anything after that she said half-assed or just really angrily. I want to be able to complete high school and move on with my life but she's petty and insecure and im aso insecure
pss: her current bf is also in that class
i just want to focus on schoolwork -
Time and distance are the best tried and true methods. There's no easy way to get over a breakup but if you have to see each other every day just try your best to know where they'll be and avoid them.
Even seeing them will make it harder for you to get over them so that class situation might make it rough. That's a tough situation to be in... I wish there were better ways for you to be able to avoid them.
Maybe find a club or activity in school to look forward to that doesn't include them? Something you can focus more of your energy on that's positive. -
im in intermediate band, and im hoping to come out to people this year. ive got lots of things to look forward to but unfortunately shes a big obstacle. out of all my exes, they were all respectful about the breakup and still very friendly with me afterwards. except for her. i wont go in details but im always painted as the bad guy, despite wanting to just move on from the relationship
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I'm not exactly a people person, so my "advice" is a bit unconventional, sometimes, but when me and my ex broke up, we actually got back together again...just for me to realize it wasn't worth it.
You need to consider their behavior. What was the reason you broke up? (You don't have to share that) Did she listen to you when you needed someone to listen to you? Did she keep her word? Did she trust you and show that she could be trusted? How is she acting now?
Judging by how she handled it, it doesn't sound like someone you should still hope to be around. When I looked at all these factors with my ex, I couldn't be happier that we're not together. Even as a "friend", he was rather toxic.
I know it's hard, but don't hold on to toxic people. If she's unstable and you're unstable, nothing good will come out of it. And take some time to work on yourself. When you say "unstable", I'd imagine there were trust issues, jealousy, unhealthy dependency, arguing, and things of that nature. Just take some time to work on you. No, you don't have to be perfect, but it doesn't hurt to better yourself. And take as much time as you need. -
Try to take some self care time for urself and ignore them for awhile,I wish u luck.
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its so hard to let go of the one i remember but at the same time i just want to move past it
i tried that and im just s--- at self care. i dont know how to do it and i dont really do it long bc chores -
It takes practice but you'll eventually get the hang of that, you got to stay strong you're braver than what you think you are.
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