Being single kinda sucks
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Thread Topic: Being single kinda sucks
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That is all, thx.
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I mean I kinda like being single
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IKR I hate being single I want a gf already god damn.
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I'm not allowed to date yet.
I don't know what it'll be like when I'm able to.
I don't think I'll really care if I'm single or not. -
Me neither, I’m perfectly content with my life as it is. I mean, it would be nice to have a bf later on but right now, I’m not in any kind of rush.
I don’t even think I’m allowed to date. -
I'm not allowed to until I'm 14.
I've also only had one crush in my lifetime. I mean, it did go on for two years, but I'm over him.
But yeah. I'm in no rush. I don't even know of I want a boyfriend. -
*if
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I’ve had too many crushes, but only a few were serious. I kinda liked this guy at camp when I was in first grade, but we were friends really.
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I mean there are times where I don’t mind being single, but when people around me are in relationships or going out on first dates, I get lonely. I’ve never been in a relationship before or have gone on a date, hell I’ve never even kissed anyone before. It just gets kinda suckish after a while.
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I totally feel that.
Like, I've never been in a real relationship before, and then there are all of my friends who are like, OMG YOU ARE SO PRETTY IM SURPRISED YOU DON'T HAVE A BOYFRIEND and I always reply the same. The guy that I like has never, ever liked me back.
And yeah, when I see people in the hallways holding hands it makes me wish I had someone in my life who was that special to me. But I don't. -
Oh yeah seeing other people together and how they get all those experiences that you don't is a little sad sometimes :(
I had one relationship, but we were never officially dating or had gone on a real date. Some of it was cute - like holding hands and that. So yeah it is sad not having that
On the other hand tho I'm a little independent creature who loves her freedom. Who doesn't have to check up on someone else all the time or make sure our future plans line up. Or constantly worry about him and his feelings.
I think I'm a little selfish O.o
Being in a relationship would be so much work y'all -
I mean yeah, but it really shouldn't have to be considered "work"
Because you aren't obligated to talk to them, but you talk to them because you WANT to.
And at one point you kind of have to understand that your partner also doesn't need to be checking in on you 24/7, because they have their own life too.
Which means you don't HAVE to either. I mean, you can if you want lol unless your partner hates that lol -
That is true. I mean I wouldn't think of it as work. But in reality, sometimes it is work.
There are times tho when I think I won't have the energy to give my partner full attention. Extremely rough and tiring days you know? But my partner will need it. And tho I don't want to, it is kind of a responsibility to be there for him despite what I feel.
I mean that's what love is right. Choosing to help the other person and putting in effort towards making the relationship work. Obviously you'd want to most of the time. Underneath it all you'd want to.
But reality is that there's going to be days where you don't want to.
And then vice versa. Say I get dependent on him, and then I'll always go to him to lean on him. But say he's really tired that day and he's had too much to deal with. I would want to lean on him, but I know he couldn't take it, and I wouldn't force him to exchange problems with me or something. I'd feel bad
Am I just rambling and over thinking XD -
Yeah no what you are saying makes sense. There are days when you just kinda need to be alone. And that's okay. And there are other days when your partner wants to be alone. But I honestly think it would be worth it to have to deal with all of those problems. I mean, it's kind of like a friendship. Sometimes I go to my friend's house and then she says that she is really tired and would rather spend the day alone. I mean, just because she wants to spend some time alone doesn't mean that I can't be friends with her.
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Yeah, that's a nice way of putting it. A little extra special friendship
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