I need your opinions
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Thread Topic: I need your opinions
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Okay, so I have this friend. He has major trust issues and is asexual. I am the only person he trusts. Today he asked me if I'd be his first kiss. No romance or anything behind it. He just wants his first kiss to be with someone he trusts. He has no romantic feelings for me, nor I for him. I told him I did not mind, because I could see where he was coming from.BUT, I had to ask my boyfriend first. Now, my bf lives in another state (long story not gonna tell here). I asked him, and specified there are no feelings involved and he said it was fine but I know him well enough to know when he is lying. I understand why he'd be upset over a guy asking this and me doing it (I haven't yet) but it is a singular kiss, no tongue or anything.Is he overreacting or does he have a right to get pissed? Should I go ahead and kiss said friend?
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I feel like you need to respect the relationship, even if he says no and you know for a fact he’s secretly not okay with it. Just don’t kiss your friend.
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We've discussed it. He said it is okay because he trusts me when I say there are no feelings.
And I assured him I plan on marrying him and having his babies. -
then why are you asking us...
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Rayne, if there is no romance behind it, I think you should try explaining again to your bf that it's just cause your friend wants it with someone he trusts, and that your friend isn't trying to hurt your bf in any way. And even if your bf says no after that, at least you tried. Then you need to respect that and tell that to your friend. I hope this helps!
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I had asked for help BEFORE he and I had that talk.
Katniss, we did and he became fine with it. -
Your bf was fine with it? That's good. I'm glad it worked out.
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