I need advice.

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Thread Topic: I need advice.

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    Sage Parson Junior
    OK, so I think one of my best friends (this ain't about Skyler) is depressed.

    She keeps listening to bands and songs with depressing songs, she's wearing a lot of black lately, she's not like she used to be.

    Like for example, she used to put time and effort into picking out her clothes. Now she sort of just wears black jacket, shirt then random colored pants.

    Don't get me wrong, she likes to wear the color black and listens to BOTDF and that's totally OK! I'm just worried that she's going to start cutting or get addicted to drugs or something, because she's starting to hang out with this goth/scene group at our school.

    Like I said before not a problem with those people, because they're super nice. But some of them have issues (One cuts, the other is starving herself, another is drinking, etc...). She sort of looks up to these people, and I don't want her to get influenced by them to do horrible things.

    I tried talking to her, but I'm afraid to really go out because she's EXTREMELY emotional. And it's like my weakness, to see her cry. If i say something, and she starts crying I'm like: "OMG I FORGIVE YOU!!" or "I'M SORRY!!!" and all that crap.

    Any ideas?
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    Sage Parson Junior
    Forgot to add.

    She's also not forgetting this dude she dated.

    He was just a jerk, and the relationship wasn't going anywhere.

    For once, I seriously don't know what to do.
  • Kitty_Cat Newbie
    Face her crying if it means finding out what's wrong. She's your best friend and you want to help her
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    Skyler Potter Junior
    Sage we need to talk to her. Im worried, too.
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    Sage Parson Junior
    @Kitty Cat But it's my weakness. I swear, I just can't take it if ANYBODY I care about is crying about stuff like this.

    Unless it's like getting hurt. That's a whole different kind of pain.
  • Kitty_Cat Newbie
    Well ding sensitive won't help her. You gotta be tough.
  • Kitty_Cat Newbie
    *being not ding e.e

    But if she cries don't forgive her, just try and figure out what's going on.
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    Nialler34 Novice
    You gotta demand what you want! Be aggressive and firm!
    Lol whut.
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    Sage Parson Junior
    Thanks guys, for the helpful info.

    -_-


    This is serious.
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    Skyler Potter Junior
    Its very serious. Please take it seriously...
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    Ashl3y Junior
    Wow. That girl reminds me of me.... :/
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    Ashl3y Junior
    So um. I don't think you should be agressive. She's already sensitive so I think that would make her feel worse.
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    Skyler Potter Junior
    Yes.
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    Sage Parson Junior
    That's why we're asking for help... ^^;
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    Ashl3y Junior
    Yes what?

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