Do you have a friend like this?
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Thread Topic: Do you have a friend like this?
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This is a text i just sent my friend, and i think it sums up what i have to say:
Ikr? It gets so effing annoying when she gets all pissed at us when we dont tell her something, then she fake crys about it, and she KNOWS i know the difference between her fake cry and her real cry. Beleive me. Ive seen her real cry before. Its enough to make you want to walk up to her and slap her til she stops. And when she follows us when were trying to talk. Like, seriously?! If we f---in wanted to other people to hear what we wanted to say, we would be where everyone else is. Not walking off to the side ALONE. WHERE NO ONE CAN HEAR US. Ergh, that just pisses me off. If we wanted to tell her, we wouldve. And just because not everyone is going to tell everyone everything, she gets all freekin upset over it. I mean, seriously, get real. People dont always tell everything to me. People dont always tell everything to you. Or sarah, or anyone really. What makes her so special where she has to know EVERY LITTLE PERSONAL THING WE EFFEN SAY TO EACHOTHER??! -
Does anybody have any idea how to help me? Because this isnt really a friend i can curse out and be done with it. She used to be my best friend (oviously not anymore even though i am still her best friend) and she is on my bus, and she lives 3 houses down from me, and her brother is still my friend (her and her brother are like nothing alike). And we have the same lunch period. So yea, cant really curse her out without causing more trouble than its worth :/
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And so im ignored -_- alright then -_-
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I have a sister with a fake cry voice. When they fake cry just say I know youre faking or something. Or sit on them.....
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Sport: In answer to your question, yes, I do have a friend like that. In fact, we're not actually friends any more, we're friendly acquaintances. This is pretty much the main reason I had to 'break up' with her, she won't keep her mouth shut. Word of advice? Act as if nothing's changed, but keep your distance with her. Jealous friends are one of the last people you would want beside you. It's like George Washington said; "Better to be alone than in bad company".
Hopefully my post will make you feel less ignored now :) -
You should just tell her to stop bugging you and being in your business 24/7.
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Loony luna- i already do that. I mean, i try and all, but she just follows me and my friend around ALL THE FREEKING TIME
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Sport: Okay, I understand because I've also been through this. Are there any clubs or places you can hide in during lunch at your school? In those lessons you don't have that girl tagging along with you and your friend, distance yourself from her, hide in the library or something...
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Loony luna- Sadly, no. Only after school activities. Which actually kinda helps though cuz she is in yearbook and im in intramurals, and theyre usually on different days, so im not on the bus with her in the afternoon. And what me and my friend are going to do tomarrow is webasked our other friends crush (were actually all kinda friends) to sit with us to take up the other extra seat that my annoying friend takes.
Megan- i would, but the thing is is that i live 3 houses down from her, were on the same bus, we have alot of the same friends, her brother is actually still like my brother, and she gets so upset over the little things and it would just be so much more trouble then its worth. Beleive me though, i want to -
Tell her Mo said to grow up and get off your ass. :I
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SilverBlueMoon NoviceI had a friend like that once. She improved with time, though, and since I changed school districts and she moved, we hardly ever speak anymore.
Try talking to her. Explain what you're feeling, and maybe she'll understand. She might (probably will) get angry/upset, so do this in a more private setting than in the middle of the cafeteria.
But if she really does value your friendship, she'll at least make an effort to fix it.
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