I find it really hard to talk to introverted people
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Thread Topic: I find it really hard to talk to introverted people
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Like I find myself staying away from people who don’t talk much, and when I do I find myself sometimes getting offended when they don’t talk as much as I do.
I mostly avoid quieter people, since it’s hard to talk to them. -
And for a fact it’s also hard for me to talk to people that are different from me in terms of personality
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Introverted people tend to only talk more when it's necessary, like if someone asks them a question or something, or when they want to, which doesn't happen as often as outgoing people.
I know for me, if you get me on a topic that I'm interested on, I'll be talking about it for a lot longer than just a normal conversation. -
A lot of times, people just want to give input on what you say. For me, I love being around talkers. That means I can have a really engaging chat or I can just give small input ^^
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Also, introverts say the least amount to get the point across. Like they'll just say, "Mhmm," but someone else might go, "Yeah, so-and-so, this-and that, lalala, blah, blah, blah, etc."
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Yeah, I know what you mean. It can be a little awkward when the conversation feels very one sided. Like Dragonsfire said, a very helpful thing is to find something they like to talk about and the more you show interest in it the more they usually will open up. Or, as mostly an introvert myself, sometimes it's not so much that I don't want to talk as much as I was contemplating my response for so long that the topic changed before I could add to it XD.
I also agree with Sprinkled spice that normally I love being in a conversation with someone who is very talkative because I no longer feel any pressure to keep the conversation going, and instead can enjoy and relate to what the other person is saying. :) -
I'm an introverted person, and so I can tell you the mind set we have if you'd ever like to know.
There's a difference between being introverted, shy, or just quiet in general, but introverted people tend to stay away from crowds, as it makes them feel low in energy level. If you'd ever like to become friends with an introvert, don't swarm them, as this could cause them both anxiety and low energy.
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