What doesn't make sense is why you'd use such technicalities when you're upset, and then when you're feeling down, you use the same technicalities to say, "Oh, well, technically, it wasn't." And it's so sad and you're so confused.
Um, I'm kinda confused, too, bruh.
I told you that you have to call the shots.
It's kind of stressful when people are indecisive. "We're not together" because you never asked me. But when something comes up, you say, "We weren't together anyway," and that's your motivation to leave. Why can't you find motivation to stay just as easily? Is it really that hard? Maybe struggles are bad, but putting it that way makes you sound eager to quit.
You know, doing that makes it so hard for anyone to love you. You can't refuse their affections and then feel bad about the fact that no one ever gets along with you. I know what I'm saying because I often do this. I need to work on it, and you do too.