how can i stay positive or be ok .
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gir13 Newbiehow do i stay positve and be strong when someone close to me has cancer
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Try to think about improvements in everday hospitals. Things are improving in the source of finding a cure to cancer. Technology has improved and it still is. At some point, it will be improved so much that the cure for cancer will be found.
It is said that there is already a secret cure for cancer somewhere in the world but that those people don't want to share it with any others. That they also want to be well known and famous and honored by everyone. But I cant say that that is absolutely true.
Think about all the things that you have been doing with that one person in the past weeks, years, etc. Try to think about the things you will be able to do along with the person who has cancer, once they find a cure (which could happen anytime soon)... -
You give yourself a prostate exAm and tell your parents that you felt a lump
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gir13 Newbieedgy please go away
@1 twlight fan she doesnt want to do treatment anymore i don't want to loose my grandma -
Oh, it's your grandma who has cancer?
I thought it was a friend of yours who had cancer.My bad...
That's a toughie...
Try to talk her into doing treatment. It might be the only way that she has a chance.
It's not terminal cancer, is it? -
gir13 Newbie@twlight its ok and she was but she doesnt wan to any more the cancer is non hodgkins lymphoma its not deadly as long as its not in the brain but it has spreaded to her brain
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My grans quitting chemo too. If she's your gran she has already lived to a decent age so it's not that bad.
Losing grandparents is normal don't sweat it. -
^ He's right.
My grandma got really sick again last year, we had to take her off life support. She passed the next day. I was sad yes, but not as sad as I thought I would be, because I remembered all the good times I had with her. If you do the same, it should help you move on quicker. -
Yes, it is normal. Hard to give up like that, but thats how life goes.
You live, you go places, you experience new things, you go through some ups and downs, you laugh, cry, run, smile, you get sick but you recover, you age and eat years, and then you die.
Thats a lot to go through, but vice versa, sometimes, it is better to let your beloved one pass away, rather than to see them suffer all the pain for the rest of their lives. Thats like sealing their doom.
But alas, it is life.
Whatever happens is simply what has to happen, no? -
Also, for my grandma at least chemo sucked. After a couple of weeks of it so she couldn't always even get in her bed.
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