Collins George's New GTQ User friend chat
Thread Topic: Collins George's New GTQ User friend chat
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That is a difficult situation
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Sometimes the best thing to do is to ignore when people criticize you. However it is best not to ignore it when you are alone. Think about yourself and ask the question: are you really like that? Are you what these people say you are. Back it up, defend yourself with facts. You may discover somewhat that you are like that, and some things you could change about yourself, but mostly it is all wrong. People are mean and they try to get good people to feel helpless
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Do not fall into their trap. Don't criticize yourself either. Be respectful to yourself, and understand. Most of the time its just that people are jealous of you. They are jealous that you are kinder, smarter and overall friendlier than them. Maybe they need help?
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Trust God. God can help change you, and he can help change them as well
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I hope you sleep well, and I hope this helps! Have a great night. Gn
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Gm, hope you have a great day
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Oh hi jaz! Been a while, i was settling some few things. Your advice worked. Thank you.
I am a moderate amount more better now. -
It is completely their fault. By no worries
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But no worries
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They like coming to things that don't concern them.
Though am forgiving them.
Back to where we are
Hope all is going fine jaz? -
Hi!
I am glad my advice worked!
Okay? I am not saying it is your fault or their fault because I am not sure what it is about or anything. But I am wondering if they would say the same thing, that is is completely your fault. Maybe they would say that, and maybe not.
The best thing to do sometimes is to reflect on your actions and take responsibility. Is any of it your fault? People like to think that none of it is their fault at all, but until you consider and take into account that you need to accept some responsibility you remember things that you have done that might cause a reaction from the other person. That does not give them reason to do or say bad things about you though.
I am not saying any of it is your fault Collins because I don't know what happened, and sometimes it is the other persons fault completely but I hope you get where I am coming from?
It is good that you forgive them though. people say to forgive and forget but I do not like that reasoning, I say to forgive, but sometimes forgetting is not the right way to go about it. To remember their past things while not holding a grudge against them is an incredible skill to have,
I am going fine thankyou. Sorry for this huge paragraph and I hope it helps. -
Do be bothered that i have to talk about me sometimes
But there is one more thing i need help with.
Well I talk to myself sometimes, I know it is not bad to talk to myself especially when alone but I also felt that it has gotten out of control and overthinking escalates the speech release.
It seems I use talking even at times random words as a way to cope with stressor, as self-entertainment or distracting myself. -
Sorry but i need your help just this time.
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Its all good, I will try and help you. Well honestly I may not be the best person to help you with because i talk to myself too lol. Do you have a pet? If you have a pet to talk to it may cause you not to stress as much and talk to it instead of yourself. It helps me. Also if you have younger kids to talk to. If you know a quiet kid that you know won't tell anyone stuff, they don't usually mind if you release your problems on them, just make sure they don't have problems themself. online chatting, talking to people about your problems to be stress free.
I stress as well and I also talk to myself sometimes. So I hope it helps you -
Hey. As someone who talks to himself a lot, I just wanted to say that talking to yourself isnt a bad thing. It's actually a healthy coping mechanism because you're identifying problems and expressing them in ways that will cause no harm to yourself or anyone else. It's a healthy release. There's no worry about burdening anyone, it keeps you busy, and you get it out and off your mind so it's not festering inside you. I'm not new here, but I just wanted to help.
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