Can somebody give me some urgent life advice
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Thread Topic: Can somebody give me some urgent life advice
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I’m 17 and I’m slow my case is really wierd. The only thing I know how to use is my heart. And if I don’t get a girl before I’m 18 I’m July then My life is done for.
I’m not going into detail but let’s just say if she don’t come along I’m either killing myself, going to jail, or I’m gonna be living in a ghetto as a crackhead for the rest of my life
I don’t know what to do I’m. f---ing loser with no money and everybody in my town thinks I’m slow or thinks im a criminal
I have a s--- life at home I don’t really got an escape for anything I’m living with so much mental pain I wish somebody knows how deep it goes how do I spill it to soembody because I know I’m bout to look like a doucebag going up to every girl I see and trying something -
I can probably help, I have a boyfriend who went through the same thing
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Honestly it's not all on a girl, if you can't love yourself or by yourself you won't be able to be better just by a girl. You can't pour from an empty cup and that lesson is learned the hard way so please take this advice. Home life sucks, especially when its a case like yours or any, the best thing I can offer is when your 18, move out, get some friends together to go somewhere, doesn't matter where. Honestly you probably don't look like a douchebag to a lot of people, that's your opinion on yourself and it sucks having that opinion but you gotta know that's just yours. The girl who knows how to love past all flaws will come along and not be a b----, just gotta try even when you get hurt and shot down. No money never stopped a lot of people, get something your good at, making deals? be a business guy. it all does come down to school and if you kinda suck at it tutors are out there, even online like this site there are people who do good in school who can help.
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But don't kill yourself because there are people who love you even when you don't see it. For instance I now care about you because you were willing to ask for help(I suck at it though sorry). Gotta make a life for yourself although it can be really hard to do.
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Why do you think that if you don't get a girl before 18 you're done for?
If you consider yourself a loser, then you will end up being a loser. It's all in the head. Consider yourself awesome and you'll end up being awesome. Sounds stupid but that's the truth.
I'd suggest you getting your s--- together, working out, going out and having fun. Fun attracts more fun. Sooner or later you'll have an exciting life.
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