Ashy's Q&A
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Thread Topic: Ashy's Q&A
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Yush, dance.
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;; It'll be okay.
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*jumps into conversation* I take 4 dance classes its fun!!!!! *leaves conversation*
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He doesn't know, and I'm scared. ;;
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Only Mom knows, and I asked her not to tell Dad or my siblings. I'm really scared. ;;
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*huggles* Everything will work out all right. I know it's scary, but you're strong enough to get through this.
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I can't explain how it feels. I'm scared of not being accepted. I'm afraid that he'll kick me out of the house. He's religious. He didn't chase after me when I ran to my room. I don't know what to do.
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First, you need to calm down. Take deep breaths.
I know that it's scary when you might not be accepted. He hasn't asked more yet though, so don't freak out just yet. He might have just been wondering, okay? No matter what though, I'm here for you. And I know Seth is, too.
I'll see if Seth can come on if you want -
Okay, okay.
You're right. What should I tell him? I don't want to lie to him.
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That's up to you. If you think you should tell him you're trans, then do that. But you have to do whats safest and most comfortable for you, Ash.
Alright, hold on. -
He's going to ask me again, and I don't have an answer. I don't want to tell him, but he has to know at some point.
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If you aren't ready to tell him, then say you're not sure why. I know you don't want to lie, but you have to make sure that you're ready. It's about you, not him.
He's here somewhere... -
If I say that, he's going to keep bugging me for an answer. Maybe I should yell, "I'm not your daughter." or something. I'm tired of hiding. e.e
He's here, but I don't think he knows that we need him. -
Oh, just tell him that they're more comfy. I don't think yelling that would help. If you do tell him, just ease into it. It'll be a big change for him too.
I requested his presence. -
If I do tell him, I wouldn't have to hide and be a "girl" anymore for him. I would be scared though.
If I don't, I will continue to hide, and I wouldn't be as scared.
If I end up telling him, I'm telling him that I need a boy haircut and boy clothes, not gender neutral. e.e
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