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that was @Dark
and im not even sorry for the rant it had to be explained -
oh late
Well. Didn't know that part. Sorry for flinging irritation at ya. I can see why you blocked him. -
Oh jeez. He was like obsessed with you or something.
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It's fine. I never took the time to explain this before so. it wasn't clarified.
And that's not even half of it, I had been planning out how to leave him in the easiest way w/o hurting him for abt 2 months before I actually did. I didn't even leave him for my current partner bc we weren't together when I started thinking abt leaving Alex so I mean. it's not like I left him for someone else either. I was genuinely unhappy and uncomfortable being in a relationship with him at that point. -
@Meep he was. and probably still is and i hope ive blocked him everywhere i can so i don't have to deal w him anymore
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Wow. And for some reason he claimed a couple months ago that he was gonna die of something and that his organs were turning to mush?? Like, how do you know if you refuse to visit a hospital?
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after reading this all i can say is
In a relationship, once somebody feels as though it's time to leave, a thorough explanation should first be given, or something should lead into the news. Many people deal with this in different types of ways. Denial is one of them, and to deal with denial, one must address the situation as soon as they can or a situation like yours will occur. You had the right to leave him as anyone else would, but, leading him on was not the right decision. It should have been addressed right from the moment he thought you were still together.
Not attempting to start anything, but now you have some sort of advice if this were to happen again. -
he always says s--- like that i never know what he's talking abt
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Yeah :I
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I understand you attempted to explain but even if you weren't capable, leave him with a good set of reasons and just don't respond. Let him go through it depending on how you feel. Block him then and there. Don't dwell on it and make it worse.
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but that's. literally what i did. the second I became uncomfortable and unhappy w our relationship and I told him and I explained myself and it still took 3 f---ing months to leave him.
It's not like I just up and left him bc I found someone better or something. I was unhappy and our relationship was unhealthy and I explained all of this and he still wouldn't accept it he didn't even care whether I was happy or not. -
im sorry man that's a long time D:
if that ever happens for any reason again
just stop, block, and roll, babeh
babeh -
wtf man take out that second babeh
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Stop, block, and roll. XD
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I should've but i didn't want to just cut him off like that idk
at least he's blocked now xD
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