How do I change?
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Thread Topic: How do I change?
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I want answers now. I don't want to be this depressed f--- any longer, I want people to actually stand me. Or better yet, how do I keep my thoughts to myself?
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Ignore them. Plus, go on a diet! I lost 7 pounds in 2 weeks! How much do you weigh?
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So what you're trying to say is that I should ignore people who I want to get closer to?
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Okay, who are you trying to get closer to? Family? Because they should love you. Friends? F****** them. They are A holes to ignore you like that.
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Can I get an answer from a mature person, and not an eight year old?
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Before I say anything...do I count?
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Try being nicer, and talk more optimistically. Your cynicism and pessimism is what alienates everyone you love. Trust is earned, not gained.
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I'll take advice from anybody, as long as they don't act like a first grader, Then yes.
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I'm not eight.
What was the point on putting this Thread on here, if you aren't going to listen to anyone, and just be a smart mouth?
You're lucky at least I care.
Be mean. That's how you'll be treated.
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Maybe the problem isn't you.
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SG- I'm sure I can start being a little nicer. However, The ranting and whining is going to be hard because I really have no other place to let my thoughts out. I've known that trust is earned. I've tried to act like people can stand me for a few months. I bet I can do it again.
Cupid- I'm just saying the response you left was almost the opposite of what I was looking for and that you sounded like a little kid by your words. -
Oh. Yeah it did. Sorry. I'm just saying you're talking about you being fat so I thought... I didn't know what else to think of. Sorry.
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Step 1. Take what the people are saying to heart and determine whether or not there is any truth to what they are saying.
Step two. Tell everyone that your sorry, and if they don't care or hold you captive to your past self then that is there own personal grudge and they are probably twice as bad as you.
Step 3. Don't say negative things, believe me I know, I was a cynic forquite awhile. Cynical and pessimistic adutudes drive people away. They don't want to be around something that isn't happy or good because they don't want to see the bad. Although I personally think theses sort of people have a very shallow life base, if you want to change, don't take a negative look at it.
(A good way to do this is to rid yourself of anything that is having an negative impact on your life and replace it with something with an positive impact on your life)
Step 5. Get involved, don't be shy around other people. Get yourself in the game, join a group of sorts were you can meet new people and have a new life, talk to people here I gtq, (having an official thread is a good way to let people know that you want to get involved) tall to positive people that wouldn't talk behind you back. (Personally, I think you would be good friends with redrose2 ) post some things other than 'I want to kill myself' and people here will really open up to you.
Now as long as your not a jerk to little five year olds or agruge with the stubborn people here you will enjoy just fine.
Also, remove all sorts of blades from your possession, cutting do sent help you it makes things worse. -
Vanilla, you give good advice. You might actually make this person understand. Thank you.
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A lot of typos up there.
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