I think I figured it out.
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Thread Topic: I think I figured it out.
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My mom: After the divorce, my mother changed from protective and nice into some other person entirely. The reason is that I think she became depressed after it and she needed to yell at us kids and bully us to make herself feel better. She likes to guilt us into thinking we owe her so she can justify her actions. She's always irritable and yells at us randomly because she still has this unsolved anger from when my dad would hit her and she takes it out on us.
My dad: After the divorce, my dad cooled down, opposite to my Mom's transformation. He realized that he couldn't deal with everything with violence and took a step towards becoming a better person. He realized he couldn't be like that and now feels extremely guilty and has become very kind. The reason why he was abusive in the first place is because he, much like me when I was younger, watched his dad hit his mom and mimicked this behaviour. Sad, but true.
Now what the hell do I do about it ? -
Oh and by the way, that's me basically asking for help.
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I'm no psychologist but I'm just going to stick with "I don't know how to help, I'm sorry". That's why I didn't post here.
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Oh. Well.
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