Anyone want advise?

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    angelic4 Experienced
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    AquaWinter Novice
    Its not like i need help. But, since you like helping people and ofcoure i dint have anything to lose i'm asking this : How to make friendship with girls last longer? My longest friendship span with a girl is 8 months. I dont know why but i just cant stay friends with girls. Can you help me?
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    angelic4 Experienced
    sure, actually it depends on the girls, there are different kinds of people you just have to find a girl who has common interests as you or someone who totally gets you. If you look closely to the girls you become friends with they might have a similar pattern. or you can get to know the girls for who they are and just try to make it work with them, first you gotta pinpoint some areas of personalities you dont like and work around them, i'm more comfortable with guys being my friend cause i totally get them but i also have my friends who are girls cause we go great together even though we are all different
  • hey, so i talk to my crush again for the 2nd time ( we just met) and he said " i'll probably go on the date with you, as long as Destini know, or else she'll tell EVERYBODY....." so should i go or not cuz' it seemz like i shouldn't cuz' he said he wanted it to b a secret and then he also said another name Nick like me, but he short....
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    AquaWinter Novice
    @angelic4 thank you!
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    Teresa22 Experienced
    My best friend (girl, we'll call her M) told my other best friend (guy, we'll say J) that she likes him. I know he likes this other girl (a closeish friend, we'll say P) and I asked M what happened/what he said and I knew she was upset. She wouldn't reply to my texts or calls and I knew he didn't like her back so of course he told her. She's my best friend and I want to help her, but should I try to find out what happened or leave it between them?
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    angelic4 Experienced
    @ emovamp personaly i think if you are going to date someone it shouldn't be a secret, if it is there's something you are trying to hide, but it's up to you, Your crush to me seems like he's hiding something, i'd check on him first before i start making moves,cause he could be possibly going out with other girls but in secret, but if you trust he isn't like that take the risk
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    angelic4 Experienced
    @ Aqua your welcome
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    angelic4 Experienced
    @ Ter as a bestfriend it's totally natural to be there and try to help, i think you should let it cool down, it seems your bestfriend want to be alone, just be there for her as a shoulder to cry on, someone who's there to comfort her, if she doesnt want to talk about it now she doesn't have to, she'll talk when she's ready
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    Mia is LOUD Novice
    What about me?
    My roomy for the past five years asked me out like two days ago. Then, he got all fired up because beast looked like him and he got super jealous. So he hacked my account and made a thread just to tell beast to leave me alone. I really liked him, but he went to far with hacking my account.
    He still likes me, and he is really sad because I refuse to sleep in the same room with him anymore, and I don't know what to do.
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    angelic4 Experienced
    @ Mia, personally for me i'd sort things out with him, sit down and talk to him about what he did, about boundaries, jealousy is something that can destroy relationships and friendships, i would tell him the truth, you used to like him and you hate seeeing him jealous, my question is do you still like him? Because then it'll be a different story
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    Teresa22 Experienced
    @Mitchy She won't talk to me and I've called her a few times, just wanting to talk because she's usually there for me. She won't reply to texts either, but I asked J to text her and just see if she responds and she replied to him right away. :( Help?
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    angelic4 Experienced
    @ Ter she replied to J cause she still likes him, she'll talk to you when she wants to, but if u wanna show her you are there send a text telling her that "You are always there for me and i want to be there foryou, just know when you are ready to talk i'm here for you nomatter how long it takes" or, you can just visit her without asking her what happened watch old movies have a sleepover and jst talk about anything that doesn't involve J
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    angelic4 Experienced
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    iluvdolphins Junior
    I kinda need help on this.

    So, I like this guy on my bus, we're like best friends and he likes me too. The bad part is that he's four years older than me, and is going to high school next year. I just got out of a relationship in March, the latest, and I honestly feel like I'm in love with him. Should I like date him or something? >.< I feel so confused if I should or not.

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