How can i help when im the one who's hurting too?
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Thread Topic: How can i help when im the one who's hurting too?
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okay so, if anyone remembers my last post forum, its because my best friend is dating the guy i was crazy about and almost dated until he went out with her. the topic was settled with he was trying to make me jealous but now, i think its different. i need serious help. my friend moved schools so the guy broke up with her because he couldn't keep a long distance relationship. so now, someone invited her to a school dance i recently had and the next day, she told me that she wants him back. i know for a fact that he's not worth it and that he doesn't deserve her. plus, i still like him. it gets me nervous. i dont want her to get hurt again. what do i do? she wants ME of all people to call him when he treats me like crap at school. i don't like him but then i do. she says she LOVES him but i seriously doubt that. help?
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Tell her to wait a few weeks. I know she may say 'But that's so long!' but it will let her
1) Move on
2) Realize he's a jerk
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3) Change her mind -
shes been waiting 1 whole year. and to her, time goes by very slowly. she is very stubborn and she really wants me to call him. i told her to move on and i gave her suggestions on what to help but she kept saying that she need him to tell her that.
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Ask her to at least try getting over him
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she wont she is VERY stubborn and she insists on calling him.
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Why doesn't she call him herself?
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she doesnt know what to say. she knows i am a get-this-done kind of person so she asked me to do it
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Tell her nicely but make your point that you're not gonna call him
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shes gonna ask my other friend to do it and she wont trust me again. i'll call him but i dont want her to get hurt
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Tell her what you think, it might be hard/akward but tell her
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i did. i told her EVERYTHING. she still says, "i need to hear it from him"
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Say this "You're going to sound too clingy! You've been chasing this same guy for a year! Gte over him he doesn't deserve you" etc. It may seem mean, but she has to get the point
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i did. i already told her that only i said cheesy. she doesnt care. the one thing i ALWAYS loved about her is backfiring. she doesnt care if the world knows who she likes. she needs to hear it from him that he doesnt want her. but then again, he does want her. ive seen the way he looks at her but then i also see him check out other girls. he's been all over other girls and that makes me hurt because i have that teeny bit of love and hate whenever i see him and then im worried she'll get hurt too.
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Then I don't know :/ Sorry
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thanks for trying, anyway. :3
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