What's a silly mistake you've made in a relationship?
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Thread Topic: What's a silly mistake you've made in a relationship?
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Ok so I have two. They're both with J.
This first one is from before we started dating, but he had already told me he liked me.
So, for some context, in science class we had to take our pulses. J said he didn't like it. I don't remember why he said he didn't like doing it on his wrists, but for his neck he said that he didn't like how he was "stabbing himself in the gullet."
He was procrastinating on it a TON and I wasn't going to be able to complete the assignment if he didn't do it.
He also has a thing for dares, so I texted him, "What if I dared you to stab yourself in the gullet?"
But I didn't realize that my phone was shipping us again (It did it all the time with these recommended stickers of hearts and emojis and whatnot) and it changed the word 'dare' to 'date.'
He asked me if I was serious and I said "Possibly." I said that because I was confused because that wasn't the response I was expecting as to if he wanted to take a dare or not.
The next morning he sends me a google hangouts asking if I actually was serious, he had been thinking about it all night, and so on.
If I remember right, I sent something back something whose contents were along the lines of "Huh?" I was completely confused out of my mind.
He responded, "You sent me a text yesterday asking if I would take my pulse if you dated me."
So I rushed over to my phone and pulled up my texts and after I moment I realized what had happened.
I felt really bad telling him that it had been a typo. I find it extremely easy to put myself in other people's shoes, and I had just raised his hopes and crushed them.
And the thing is I had accidentally led him on like that I couple times before. I don't remember what they were, but I remember feeling so bad because I kept on unintentionally giving him hope that something was going to happen at the time when it wasn't.
This other one happened in like the first month of our relationship.
I still find it funny.
So, I sort of ruined the little nicknames for him because I called them "pet names"
Here's what happened
In school he emailed me, "How are you wonderful"
I didn't realize he was calling me wonderful because he didn't put a comma. I thought he made some sort of typo and he was actually wondering if I was doing wonderful. It was either that or he was actually calling me wonderful, but I decided that it was more likely the former.
I was having a bad day, so I told him that I wasn't doing wonderful.
Then he said, 'Well if you don't want to be called Wonderful what should I call you?'
Then I realized what he was doing. Then I quickly responded, "Shoot, sorry, I didn't realize you were doing pet names."
I don't remember what he said next exactly but it was somewhere along the lines of that he didn't like the term 'pet names' because I'm not a pet.
He never tried doing it again.
The things I accidentally do XD -
Something bad happened and I was scared to tell them about it because I thought they think the worst of me. So instead of me saying anything then I panicked and broke up with them because I figured they be better off without me!
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This one probably cause it was a bad relationship but I guess being too honest??
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Liked someone else
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Hey it happens !
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Yup
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I said I love you eggsme to esme and then in class I told her I have a wife(eggaly) and she asked me if I was cheating on her and the teacher heard it and made me explain whats happening
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The relationship it's self sometimes- that's my silly mistake
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Nqrse: yeesh 😅
Oof same ^ -
Told someone I like I liked them and got turned down (this was a really long time ago)
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I liked the wrong person, told them that I had a crush on them, and then they became my torturer.
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