Can I get advice
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Thread Topic: Can I get advice
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So like im17 and male
I’m just kinda stressed in life. I need and want a girlfriend it’s gonna cut a lot of stress out in my life
But just the person I am people take me wrong than what I really am. I got a big heart and I want a real relationship but like every girl I see and meet it changes my attitude just being around females
Like I’m confident I’m just never I’n the right headspace when I meet one I vibe with
And I always go for it too soon. I try not to be wierd and I’m respectful about it but I always ask them out like too soon
I met this girl the other night at my friends and I like her. I think she likes and understand me bc we talked a lil bit but I just get a head of myself sometimes
Will I be cool if I just keep my cool and not push it to fast. My life is just kind opposite I’m living really fast and I feel like a relationship will slow me down. Like I don’t feel that comfortable where I’m at but love makes me feel good. I just want s--- to happen fast I’m really hurt and I just been thru a lot. My patience is kind of running thin. Like I’m willing to take so many sacrifices and I’m willing to lower my expectations for myself to find the right one
Am I good? I feel like I come off like a f---boy I just got a really big heart -
Idk what to say except you've got to learn to slow down. And not be impulsive.
Jumping from girl to girl bc youre rushing might actually be taking you more time than just sticking with one girl.
And no one is born with patience. It's something you have to learn,,, but good things come in time don't they?
Also wanting a gf just so you can be less stressed is kinda selfish. If you make your priority in a relationship about the other person, it's gonna last longer, and you'll have more patience to wait for them when you realize it's not about you. Plus its more attractive to girls when they realize you actually want to be there for them, and not just have them to make you feel better.
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