Relationships are weird
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Thread Topic: Relationships are weird
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Last summer when I broke up with my ex after a long, manipulative, s---ty relationship. Since then I don't care about relationships like I used to. I have a bf now I guess but I'm not very serious about it and not putting in any effort.
And I kinda wanna be completely single cause I just wanna worry about myself. And not have him upset when I don't make time for him.
But idk how I'd explain this to him in a nice way.. Like "hey I still like you and wanna hang out and talk but I don't wanna worry bout your feels or make time for you....and also I know I don't wanna be with you in the future since we want different things from life" -
I can't speak for myself, never really being in a serious (or semi serious, depending on how you view your own relationship), but if I could offer advice, it would to just say what you feel. I know it's probably not easy, but that's life. We're kinda forced to do things we don't want to do, or things we are completely unsure about. But just tell him the obvious: You guys would be better off as friends since you guys have different plans for your lives.
Idk tbh though, my opinion is probably s--- compared to others. -
I mean you're right tho but ughfhjdvfhdfnhddh xP
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(But most people my age can't stay friends after relationships 1 or the other is hurt and you never speak again and that would make me so sad :'( And he is taking this more seriously than me even tho he is younger. Which is why hes more serious I suppose; he hasn't had a serious adult relationship and is expecting so much.
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If people can't seem to stay friends after a break up, then it either has to be a really bad break up, otherwise, in my opinion, not wanting or choosing to stay friends shows a lack of maturity on their end.
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