>:I f--- This
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I really never wanted to think it, but I am. Some ppl on here are way cooler than my friends in real life. I hate it, because I should be happy with my real life, but ov course, I'm not. My real life is falling apart, so I'm turning back to GTQ. But I'm wondering just how long this is gonna last, how long until my problems are to big to be dispelled with some kind words and advice......
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i feel like venting the new problems in my life.....
The volleyball season is coming to an end at my school. I wasn't great, cuz I know I could've done better, but already ppl are talking about JO (an even better volleyball program) but idk if I'm good enough, if this is what I want, blah blah blah. Cuz right now, I've been really struggling with math. I'm in seventh grade, but they bumped to up to eighth grade math! Its been getting harder, but I've tried to keep up as much as I can. But since that class is such a worry to me, its been making me think that I'm doing bad in my other classes too, when I'm not. So it makes me worry twice as much. And its hard for me to relax when I'm trying to think out the best things for me, and then add in my friends.....
Well, today at lunch my friends decided to sit with some of the boys, but then the boys started spazzing out so the girls did too, and to be truthful, I really didn't even give a s--- what it was about, but of course, all of my friends were like "Omg! Omg!' So i had to be like, "Omg, what happened?" and they didn't even know! It was some secret the boys had that they weren't telling. And then all of these other secrets are bubbling up, and I'm so out of the loop right now, because I've been hanging out with this other friend of mine who is super funny and makes me feel good, but then it would mean leaving one group and going into another where things are just so much simpler. Its like, leaving the battle grounds to go home. It would mean I was showing no interest or care for my other friends, like a soldier not caring for the cause he's fighting for. But I always feel like my friends are fighting for the wrong things, or I'm fighting on the wrong side......
So to sum it up, I am really changing too much. I don't see eye to eye with my friends anymore, my bff since third grade had been acting like a snob and a slut......(i have to vent about her real quick) I've known her since third grade, and we've been best friends. We love the outdoors and artsy stuff, but now she's been acting like all this drama that she's never gonna fit into is more important than our friendship. And she's been acting really mean too, and I don't know how to cope with it all.
*Snobby bff
*Another awesome friend who I love to hang out with is in another "group", so if I left my group, that would mean losing my other friends totally. But they're not really my friends anymore....
*One class that makes me worry about all my other classes, and not enough about other things.
*A new volleyball program that I don't know if I should join or not cuz I want to focus on grades, but then I would be a nerd....
*Being out of the loop. I don't seem to be as fun as I once was. My friend who I hung out with all last year pretty much ditched me entirely.
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*A new volleyball program that I don't know if I should join or not cuz I want to focus on grades, but then I would be a nerd....
gotta tell it to you straight, there's nothing wrong with being a nerd (seeing i am one)
second of all, worrying about how people deem you is a bit shallow, if you stopped worrying about that, you'd have less on your mind
if focusing on your school work and NOT FAILING makes you a nerd, then what the hell does that make the idiots who fail because they're afraid of 'looking bad'?
two, get caught up in that class first, then worry about the other ones, I'm behind in almost ALL my courses (including art) and i'm catching up easily because i learned to ignore fools like them.
so get your mindset straight.
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I can really relate to what you're going through. First of all I high fives you, MATH IS HARD! lol I've been in advanced math classes before and it sucks. It's always good to challenge yourself but taking it too far won't be good for any of your academics. Maybe if there are things you don't understand consider getting a tudor or balancing your classes.
As for the different groups of friends I say you follow your heart. Friends are supposed to be people you enjoy being around. So maybe if you want to start gradually hanging out more with the other group and than the other but don't cut off connections completely.
For the best friend I know how that feels too, and I believe some relationships in life just take their course sometimes. If she's being dramatic or mean talk to her about it. Let her know what's bothering you and that you do care about your friendship. But if she still remains cold and changing more and more, then maybe it's not worth wasting your energy.
And I say at least try the volleyball program! You could be really great and a essential part for the team, and the important thing is that you like it. Go have fun and live yours dreams! :) -
SiSi I'm in 7th grade too, and my life is kinda of tearing apart.
I also lost my best friend.
*Just study harder, forget about the drama about what's going on! It just fills up your cup of focus!
*Maybe you should try other things, but if you really want to try volleyball you should really look at your schedule (planner)
*Who cares about what others think?
*It's not that hard making friends. Make friends with the new students say hi ask them questions (but not personal)
Here's some experiences I've gone through this year.
*My best friend turned all girly and smoggy and doesn't call or hang out with me anymore just with other people. So I hung out with my other friends made new friends and ya.
*I took notes in class and asked teachers questions. Also I have a planner that tells me what to do in order to do well. (a reminder)
*I suck at some sports so uh idk, but I am gonna join the basketball team this year so I can make new friends and show people that I'm not weak.
*Be weird, funny, interesting, it attracts more friends!
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*snobby
Lol I read through of what I wrote and it sounded like I was a nerd.
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Hunteriscool Newbiemy problems are a little more personal...
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