cutting

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Thread Topic: cutting

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    sara63 Experienced
    hey guys,
    i've been cutting for a few months and i think it's getting worse. i always feel like s--- and that i'm not good enough and have no future. i used to think i was such a great person, but now i only think about my shortcomings. what should i do?
    thanks, sara
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    Viktor Experienced
    I know how you feel.
    First I have a question,what started all this?I mean what was the first thing that made you get depressed at first place?
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    sara63 Advanced
    my parents. and my grades.
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    Viktor Experienced
    Ah parents are b----.What did they do?
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    dragon Experienced
    Don't feel like that.However I mostly the same but we have to remind ourselves that no one born for nothing and all of us will be someone in the future.
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    dragon Experienced
    *I'm
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    sara63 Advanced
    well, all my life i thought i was going to become a doctor. just this year i've gotten my first 50's, 60's, etc in math and science, and not a day goes by that i don't feel too stupid to live. so my parents always complain about what i do and what i don't do. sometimes i think it's so they can feel better about themselves.
    anyway, whenever i cut i feel guilty because i know there a people out there far worse off than me.
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    sara63 Advanced
    *are
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    Home gurl Junior
    I know that feeling.
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    dragon Experienced
    That's so good your trying for becoming a doctor and be sure these tries won't be useless.
    And don't worry about your parents.My parents are the same ;) All the parents are the same.

    Besides,my name's Sara too =D
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    sara63 Advanced
    i know it's good to have goals like that, but i really don't think i have it in me
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    sara63 Advanced
    i don't have any option besides that. i mean, i don't there's any way i can be a happy person in the future, no matter what i do.
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    sara63 Advanced
    *i don't think there's
    sorry about all the typos
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    dragon Experienced
    You know,when you have a life goal just don't think like:'I SHOULD BE A DOCTOR!'because if you don't get to that,your heart will broke and you'll be so angry and mad.
    The goals should be like:I want to have a wonderful life in the future.
    This wonderful life might be by money and might be by love =)
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    Viktor Experienced
    If you don't get the grades you want,it doesn't mean you should give up already.Whenever you have a negative thought in your mind just ignore it.Trust yourself and always believe in what you do.See those successful people out there?All of them have had their bad times in life,they just managed to overcome it.
    I can't imply more,IGNORE the negative thoughts and fill your mind with positive ones.Trust me,this simple trick works wonders.
    And don't worry if you get disappointed again,you can always start over and beat those damn thoughts.

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