The Boy from Nibelheim
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Oh my gosh that's the problem in the first place you gotta be your own person that's so aggravating
They mean well but they can't do that you're right it doesn't help at all -
It really hurts when people do things to trigger my anxiety. It's understandable when I suddenly feel anxious. It's no one's fault. But it's not okay that people do things and don't listen whenever I try to explain that it's triggering. Just like my mom says, my grandmother doesn't see how even family can be too much, at times. I felt like I was being attacked, trying to explain myself and hearing her scold me for disagreeing that anything was wrong with not having constant interaction.
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You're right Grandma is a rlly spiritual woman and she has a lot of value for people in her family and when it comes to stuff like that sometimes it takes someone else who understands how you feel to also speak about it
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But you can't just wait for someone else to do something and when not everyone listens to you, you just gotta find ways to relieve your own stress because sometimes people don't change their minds even if you do try
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That's why it's great you have this platform to vent and speak to people who may have similar issues
I hate that you gotta deal with that and a lot of people in our family are like that, though they mean well it's hard to be around -
I'm having so much trouble handling this, though, and none of the coping mechanisms taught me how to deal with people who sit here and tell me I'm not believing in God enough, I'm depressed because I rejected God, and I'm not doing anything to help myself. I feel so unstable right now, but our aunt's already in bed so I can't even talk to her.
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I feel like a qorthless piece of s--- all over again. Like I never even received treatment.
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I don't even know what to do.
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I knew Grandma was kinda strict, but I didn't think she'd be this judgemental. I just want to make it through the night so I can talk to the psychiatrist tomorrow. Please.
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Learning how to deal with really holy people like that usually come with being around so many over time
They believe in all honesty that they're right, the way they talk to you, and the best way to deal with it from my experience is just nodding along with it and continue to vent to the places you know you can and exploring ideas for yourself -
If I came this far for nothing...
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Maybe you're right.
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And though they can be really stressful tbh, social media apps have been a really good way to get away from all of that
Especially ones like Pinterest that have a bunch of different things to bring new ideas and inspiration to you -
That's how I ended up here at gtq in the first place.
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If there's no one else up to talk to about things especially involving our family tell me about it cause honestly I feel the same way and it's good to finally not be the only person who's somewhat feeling pressured by everybody
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