Honey, I’m going to be serious with you here. That sounds like a bloodline curse. Somewhere along the lines one of your family members may have angered a god, or a faerie.
I can’t help you, but please don’t become paranoid.
It’s likely that it’s mostly Murphy’s law.
You need to think positively,
It’s a coincidence,
It’s all about intent.
Again, I’m not an experienced witch, I’m a baby witch, who only dabbles in green Witchery. I work with plants and crystals.
I’m not the person to talk to you about this kind of thing.
It’s likely just your way of thinking.
The ebb and flow of the universe?
You need to be careful about invoking Murphy’s law.
If you think something bad will happen, it will happen.
Again if this is magic, a intent may be enough. Just tackle everything with the intent to succeed.