two hour drive commence
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Thread Topic: two hour drive commence
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Fair enough. I hate to fight with my friends..
Honestly though, if you truly want someone in your life and as a friend then you will learn to understand and forgive. I already talked to Anri about some of this problem and I understand where she's in the wrong but I also would like to see your side of the story. Me and my bestfriend would fight to the point of us both crying and hating each other but we always managed to get back together and it made us closer over all. -
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I just kinda feel like she's taking advantage of me. Like I hate fighting with her, and then she apologizes, and I can't help but forgive her, but then she just freaks out on me again, and I'm tired of it. I don't wanna be mean, but at the same time I don't want to give her anymore chances.
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-rubs face-
Honestly, Anri is a mess. You're a mess. I think instead of making a thread for everyone to put their noses in it you two should make a thread for you both and calmly talk about the problems you both face. Anri.. She's just not that understanding of her own situations and I told her that this morning over the phone. She takes things to heart way to easily and trust me, I deal with her attitude all the time. It'll go from crazy, to mean, to sorry all in a matter of seconds. It's something I've learned to grow a patience for because that's just who I am. -
I just don't know if I can keep putting up with it. I know I'm at fault here too, I know I could've done a hell of lot more to help her, I know I'm honestly a terrible friend, but I can't take it. I can't go from her screaming at me to saying she's going to leave to saying she hates me to saying she's jealous of me...I don't know. I don't want to be her friend if all she sees me as is someone to beat up when she's in a bad mood. I don't want that.
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I understand that 100%. In the end no one is perfect and everyone is twisted and messed up inside. It's the people who take the time to untwist our messed up minds and help fix the little cracks in our souls that save the day. I think you two need to talk it about and you explain to her that when she gets an attitude and wants to fight that you won't deal with it and will walk away and wait for her to cool down. It's what I do. I just hate seeing two friends fight when it could be solved and fixed slowly.
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I've tried that though. I've done everything from ignore her to explain things calmly to screaming right back at her. And she just doesn't listen. Look, I care about her. I really do, but I feel like punching bag more than her friend. I've tried to explain to her that I won't get involved when she's in a bad mood, but all that seems to do is put her in a worse mood and then we end up fighting again. And then she begs for another chance, and I give it to her, and I swear it's the last time. But then we end up fighting again and it all just repeats.
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This is honestly a mess in my opinion. I can see both sides of the story because Anri always pulls any negativity towards herself instead of away from herself. And you, well you try and try but you also get hot headed. To be honest, I love you both and if we ever try and figure this out I think that a few days of chilling away from each other will work best. It cannot be resolved unless you two talk to each other though, I'm merely the side line girl who's trying to offer some advice in any way.
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Okay. You're right, I think, except I honestly don't think talking would work. I've tried so many times to get my point across, but I just think it's difficult for her to see where I'm coming from. Maybe avoiding each other for a bit would be best. *huggles forever* Thanks a lot for listening~ You'd make a very good therapist.
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-purs and hugs tightly- I love to listen and talk to other people about there problems ^^ And in the end, even if you guys don't fix things up at least be civil with each other.
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Yes, I shall try~ thank you very much ^w^ I actually feel much better now
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If you ever need anything just come to meee. I'm currently at a wrestling meet and dying of boredom. >.>
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Aw, I can't do much but I can attempt to cute your bored one with conversation~
How are you? -
I'm actually stressed, possibly depressed, but always well dressed.
I love being a poet~ -
Yay for rhymes X3 sorry you're stressed and possibly depressed tho
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