Sometimes
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Thread Topic: Sometimes
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I don't know what to do. Everytime I give somebody a second chance they end up screwing up, and then I give them another chance, but then they just flip out. And then I get mad, and then they apologize, and then I can't help but give them another chance. I hate it. I hate being taken advantage of. I feel like some people think they can push me around just because they know I'll keep forgiving them, and it really frustrates me. But I don't wanna be one of those people who just shoves everybody away before even giving them a shot, but at the same time I don't wanna keep being used. I dunno what to do.
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*Huggles* Maybe try and put your foot down? Say that you're sick of being used and that you're not going to give them another chance. Try to tell them what you really think and what they really feel. If they really care, they'd understand and not make that mistake again and they won't push you around and use you ever again, you just have to speak your mind. If they don't care and they do it anyways, then they're not worth your time.
wow that didn't make sense but... okay. hopefully his helps? -
Take it like this, if you give somebody one too many chances, don't give them another. Giving people chances over and over isn't going to help them get better because if they know that you are going to let them get another chance, they'll do whatever it is that they were doing. You don't have to shove any person you meet away. Give them a chance to be your friend and see how it goes. If you realize they aren't suitable, than so be it. If you realize they are, then that is great because you've got yourself a new friend. Don't forgive somebody if you feel like you shouldn't. Do the three strikes and you're out thing. It works.
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I've tried that, and it just seems like she doesn't care. Like nobody does. They just keep doing it and I can't do anything about it and I dunno. I should just shut up now before I start freaking out. Thanks though.
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Thanks Wolf. I'll try that. Seriously, thanks.
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3: sorry.
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You are welcome. Just caaaaalm down okay.
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S'okay
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Don't apologize. c:
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