Please. help. Me.
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Thread Topic: Please. help. Me.
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TEENAGE PERSON HERE IN HEAPING TROUBLE, NEEDS WISE AND SMART PERSON, ANY AGE, DON'T CARE
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What do you need?
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Me and my best friend like the same guy and I keep telling her this will end with a war.
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You shouldn't have told her that. That was a screw up. First of all, just calm down. I've read somewhere that one of the reasons why girls are so mean is because of sexual superiority, or in basic terms, fighting over a boy or a number of boys. You're angry because your best friend likes the boy you like, right? You guys are fighting over a "mate" that probably won't be "the one", and you're both probably going to move on from him, I can assure you that. But for now, let me give you a list of things of what you can do.
1.) Slap that b----. Not a logical solution.
2.) Flirt with the boy as much as possible. Not a logical solution.
3.) Have an emotional breakdown. Not a logical solution.
4.) Prank war in attempt to embarrass each other. Not logical at all, but I would like to see that.
6.) Disown her as a friend. Not as illogical, but not too logical.
7.) Settle things with her. Try to agree to disagree and even though you both like the boy, accept the fact that neither of you will get him if you just keep bickering on and on. You're best friends. Get along. It may be hard to be able to hang out with her because you may have technically liked her first, but just be nice to her still. Logical solution. -
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Or that. Murder her.
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But she said "We can like him together and fight every girl that likes him" and I'm like "Ok"
But really I was like "UM b---- ARE YOU f---ING INSANE"
But, I am not really thinking and wishing that he has a girlfriend so she can back the f--- off and so can I.
And she also said "He makes me laugh and smile and makes my heart sway"
OKAY OH HELL NO JUST LIKE A DAY AGO YOU ARE COMPLAINING AND SAYING HIS JOKES AREN'T FUNNY AT ALL ANYMORE JUST STOP
Deep down, I thought What she was telling me was a joke, but it's not. We are still texting. I said "I'll take one for the team, You can have them" because no matter what happens I want my friend to be happy even if my heart is crushed. -
That works as well. Ruining friendships are permanent. Feelings aren't. If she does get him, you'll move on, I promise. I can even help you move on if/when you need it.
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But... but....
I don't want to sound "crazy" or "strange" but I think I know the real him, I think. Deep down. -
*I am wishing that he has a girlfriend
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I'm not sure how to respond anymore. But do you think that you will be better off with him or will she? Just think.
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Her. Because she obviously deserves it, unlike me. I did too much cruel things to deserve love, she's the good one. I will take it all just to let her have him. I don't care anymore and I feel alittle sick now.
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Then I suppose that's your answer.
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Or maybe not... I have strong feelings in this surpriseful, suspenseful, and shocking situation but I really can't tell if they are positive, negative, or neutral. I just fell.. not sad... but mellow and glum.
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Ugh, I'm fed up now. If you want something done, you should do it yourself and I am going to do this without anyone I guess. ;~; I'M SCARED
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