Ehhhh.
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Thread Topic: Ehhhh.
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Because I saw these posters that me and my two exbestfriends made when we were in 8th grade. And they had our names and "BFFS" on it, and I started feeling really sad because we were really close, and now we don't even talk, and I feel like some of it was my fault.
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That's okay.... I'm use to being ignored....
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Is there any reason you feel as if it were your fault? Did something happen between you guys?
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Well, what happened was when we were freshmen, (I'm calling them R and J), J and I did cross country together, and so track season was starting, and I injured my shins, but I still went and lifted with the team. And one day, J just got really serious (which surprised me because she's never serious. Ever.) So I texted her that night and asked her if everything was okay, and she said that she has to mature more and be more serious about running because she has to be as good as her sister and get scholarships, which I thought was really stupid because we were freshmen, and colleges don't even look at freshmen yet. And then other stuff happened and she said that she needed a break from being silly, so the next day I told R this and she got really upset because they've known each other for as long as they can remember. And then we kinda sorted everything out, but things were still a little bit weird between us. And then sophomore year, we all had the same lunch, so we sat together, and I couldn't run cross country because of my shins, so J and I weren't as close. And I found myself not liking sitting with them and J's friends from elementary because I didn't talk at all, so I moved lunch tables, and they seemed kinda irritated at me for that because they didn't like the girl that I was sitting with, but me and her knew each other from elementary school. And then R, J, and I just kinda stopped talking after that. R got a new best friend and J started hanging out with her old friends (she kinda turned a little slutty too), and I was just kinda there with no friends. So, yeah.
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I am sorry. It is not your fault. You probably realize that, but you just feel like that.
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I forgot to mention....
It isn't your fault. You didn't do anything wrong. It's just what it is, now back the hell off. -
You didn't have to cuss to make your point Unloving. She lost a friend and feels bad about it. One cannot always change how he/she thinks or feels,
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Yeah, I just feel like if I didn't move lunches tables, then we would still be friends.
Unloving, kindly f--- off. You don't know everything. J didn't become mature and serious. She turned slutty when she started hanging out with her old friends, and she jokes around with them all the time. I did back off. Why do you think we haven't talked in two years? So stop being an a--hole because I'm not in the mood for your b----iness. -
I'm sorry, I didn't mean to...
Never mind. It's pointless. I didn't think you'd understand, they never do... -
No, you did mean to though, and you shouldn't have.
What's that suppose to mean? So you want to do what J did? You want to cut off yourself from all of your friends? Have you ever thought the reason that they want to be near you is because they like you? Or that they have no other friends? Because that's pretty much what happened to me, and I don't want it happening to someone else because they're "annoying" you. -
I would reply but I would piss you off so bad...so....I'm just going to keep my mouth shut
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That happened to my first friend in middle school But, I got over it and found new friends. Sometimes, I just wish I could go back to where I started and re-do things, But moving on is more better.
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No, say it. You already got me pissed.
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No, I shouldn't have opened my mouth. Er...my keyboard...I guess.
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That's how I feel, Anime. But I don't want to move on because when I was friends with them, it was probably the best years of my life, and I can't remember being sad.
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