I need to talk to someone

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Thread Topic: I need to talk to someone

  • Flow Novice
    I'm in love with my best friend's boyfriend and he is a player. How can I get him away from her with out hurting her? She means the world to me. He and I dated 3 times before and we kissed behind the wood in my back yard. It was the best day of my life. I need some one to talk to. PLEASE!
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    musicgirl Experienced
    I don't have very long, but I'll be back later.

    As for advice, I feel like it's a bad idea to try to get him away. If he is the player you make him out to be, he'll eventually just drop her. Just be patient.
  • Jade Black Novice
    you shouldn't steal him away from her but you should at least tell your best friend so she understands :)
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    musicgirl Experienced
    Yeah, I agree with JB....

    JB? Is that supposed to be the same initials as Justin Bieber?
  • Jade Black Novice
    Jade Black
  • Jade Black Novice
    no
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    musicgirl Experienced
    Lol. Okay. Just wondering.
  • Flow Novice
    I see where you guys are coming from it's just that he's already dated her and she told him she loved him and he said that he isn't sure if he loves her. Then he kissed me, if she found out it would
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    musicgirl Experienced
    He kissed you while he was going out with your best friend?? No, you tell her, and leave him. If he loved you, he wouldn't be with her, and if he loved her, he wouldn't have kissed you. This guy is not worth it.
  • Jade Black Novice
    true that music girl! :)
  • Flow Novice
    I know it's just when we're together he makes me feel like I belong. He is my best guy friend and she is one of my best girl friends so it's kind of unbalanced. I can't tell my friend she would kill me and she also told me to stay away from him so we won't be friends if I told her.
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    Moyashi Experienced
    Then listen to your friend stay away. You seriously wanna break up a relationship for your own gain? I may be a cold person, but you've topped me with that crap. How dare you even consider something that black-hearted. >:/
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    musicgirl Experienced
    You aren't true friends if you DON'T tell her. Right now, you're in an unhonest friendship. Which is even worse than no friendship at all. And if you're really her friend, you wouldn't be doing this with a guy she loves! You should be encouraging her to dump his sorry ass! Tell her that he kissed you, and that he's not good enough for her, and that if she dumps him, you promise you won't go out with him. This guy really shouldn't get to be in this situation. Your friend right now is in an even harder spot than you. Imagine how you would feel if it were the other way around.
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    Carri04 Hot Shot
    1. stay the hell away from that a--hole, if you go after him, you're a selfish slut

    2. tell her. honesty is better. however in some cases its best to keep what you know to yourself to avoid pain, but i think you should really tell her.

    3. you got yourself into this mess, get yourself out by doing the f---ing above/
  • Flow Novice
    Yeah, your right. I just told her.

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