Guys I need your help
Thread Topic: Guys I need your help
Nqrse NoviceSo my friend chloe has a crush on this guy who sits next to me in math but I kinda think he's not the greatest. By that I mean he's gay(chloe doesn't know that) and still bullies me for being bi and bullied Oliver for being trans. So basically he's gay and homophobic. And he also swears a lot and makes me feel very uncomfortable because of some other things. His mind *coughs* Chloe likes him a lot though but I don't want to crush her hopes but I don't really want her to fall in with the wrong people either because he can influence her. I don't want chloe to be homophobic and disrespectful like him but I need to tell her at some point what I think.
GothicDarkAngel NewbieHow do you get a gay homophobe?
Okay, so first of all, I can get why Chloe really likes him. He seems pretty bad-boyish on the outside, which has some sort of glammer to her, maybe??? (I have the same tastes, at times). However, he doesn't act rude; he's actually just the worst, like you said.
And you should let her know that how he treats everyone else reflects how he'll treat her. This is what opens my eyes to other "bad boys" and makes me realize some boys like to act bad, and some boys really are just the worst. But don't beat her up for liking him. All you can do is give a gentle or stern warning and let her make her own choice. As much as you might hate doing so, it's all you can do. And, if he's gay, he probably won't even consider dating her, but just in case he does, let her know how you feel and what's going on anyway.
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