What red and green flags do you watch for in other people?
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Thread Topic: What red and green flags do you watch for in other people?
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They can be major or minor ones. Just any personal red and green flags you have for other people when looking for new friends or relationships
In case you're unaware, red flags are pretty much- warning signs in ppls behaviour, relationships, way of living or whatever else. Green flags are pretty much the opposite! Positive signs!
Add as many as you like -
When someone doesn't respect my boundaries, no matter how small they are, it's a red flag for me.
Disregarding my boundaries and privacy makes me feel like they're someone not to be trusted, whereas someone who respects them and encourages me to do what feels comfortable for me is a green flag.
Another red flag is talking bad about other people or just being nasty in general. If they're nasty to people, even if it's provoked, then that's a red flag. Bullying someone isn't okay, even if that person deserves.
If someone never stands up for the things they care about or believe in, it could be a red flag. If they never stand up for themselves or for other people, they're unlikely to stand up for you or be there for you when the going gets tough.
A green flag would probably be the little things they do or how they treat people, especially when you're not there to see it.
Another is self care. Self care shows that they have discipline and that they care about their health and know what's good for them and what's not. If they can take care of themselves, then they're much more likely to be capable of loving and taking care of you then someone who disregards their own health, whether mentally, physically, and/or spiritually.
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