I need gay advice

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Thread Topic: I need gay advice

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    ello Advanced
    So, the guy I broke up with, made a huge deal about it to his friends. They were all up on me "Why did you dump him?" And "Why'd you make him almsot kill himself?". Shiz like that. Here it is, a few weeks later, and if I'm with anyone, he'll just stare at me. Outsid, in the halls, lunchroom, wherever. It's starting to make me uneasy. I don't know what to do, and he's doing other things that make me uncomfortable. Like going and talking to my five friends, talking to people about me, and one instance where he was about to straight up kiss me. But, I left before he got the chance. Also, he keeps telling people that he wants to get back together, and people keep telling me. It's getting really uncomforting, and I need some help
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    I would confront him directly and ask him firmly to stop, probably bringing a friend or two along in case he gets too close or anything. You should tell him very sternly that his behavior is making you uncomfortable and that there is no chance of you getting back together. Don't try to be friends or anything. If you're friendly to people like that, they'll just keep on clinging to you. Oh and the whole "almost kill himself" thing? Manipulation. If he pulls any s--- like that, just walk away. Don't worry about his friends either. They're just trying to guilt you.

    If even after confronting him he and his friends still keep bothering you, I'd talk to a school counselor and see if they could do anything? Idk, best of luck. Sorry you got involved with such a weirdo.
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    ello Advanced
    Thanks. This is helpful.

    I wasn't attracted to him, and he was too open about our relationship. That's why I broke up with him, and I don't know if he knows that.
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