I don't know what to do!

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Thread Topic: I don't know what to do!

  • crazygirl4112 Novice
    Ok, so I like these three guys, but I'm not going to use their real names. They are T, B, and J. J and B both go to my church, and T goes to my school. I really like all three, except there is a problem. B is 2 and 1/2 years older than me, so my mom will never let me go out with him. I never really get to see J, and T is one of my ex-boyfriends. I really really really like all of them, but I don't know whether or not I should tell them that, or ask them if they like me, or what. I have absolutely no way of knowing wether or not they like me, because BOYS ARE REALLY CONFUSING, and I just don't know what to do, and I don't know which one I should date! I could really use advice right now.

    So . . . yeah. I need advice on what I should do about this whole boy problem. I don't know what I should do! Please help me . . .
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    DaughterOfApollo Advanced
    How old are you? And did you break up with T or did T break up with you?
  • crazygirl4112 Novice
    I am 13, and I broke up with T.
  • crazygirl4112 Novice
    I broke up with T because he was being a pretty b----y bf, but I still kind've liked him when I did.
  • crazygirl4112 Novice
    *Kind of, not kind've.
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    Sage Parson Junior
    Don't get back together with an ex. It makes you look desperate.
  • crazygirl4112 Novice
    True . . . that is very true . . . But what about J and B?
  • crazygirl4112 Novice
    Sorry is there are long pauses in be tween my replies. I am also doing a report, so I am going back and forth.
  • crazygirl4112 Novice
    * If, not is. I swear, my mom needs to have me tested for dyslexia!
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    Unexpected Novice
    mmm. you're still pretty young, so it's not so serious. just send them a text w/a smiley face and see how they respond.
  • crazygirl4112 Novice
    Yeah. Here's the thing. I don't have any of their ph#, and even if I did, if my mom caught me txting a boy, she would kill me. She is way to overprotective. And I can't just delete the txts, because she found a way so that if I do delete them, she will know that, and then she can still read the txts. And then she would kill me for deleting txts! Before I do delete my txts, she makes me show them to her so then she can read them. Ugh . . . I think I am turning into my bff!
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    Unexpected Novice
    how often do you see j and b then?
  • crazygirl4112 Novice
    Twice a week at my church, but J usually goes to a different service on Saturday, so about once a week for him.
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    Skyler Potter Junior
    Ask J if you two can meet up somewhere. Maybe with a few friends, or something. Then you could get to know him better. Find time to say hi to him, ask him questions about himself, etc.

    Like Sage said, you shouldnt get back together with T, since he is your ex.

    And you said that B was 2 1/2 years older than you, and you couldnt go out with him anyways. So the only person left is J. Like I said, just try to find time to talk to him.
  • crazygirl4112 Novice
    OK. Thank you guys so much! I will take your advice. Now, this thread can die. Thanks again!

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