It's kinda bad.......
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Thread Topic: It's kinda bad.......
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Sooooooo…
How do we begin? (Please don't judge me for this.)
I'm (in my thinking) overly sensitive. Everything effects me one way or another.
Lately, I've been feeling all alone, right? Yeah, understandable. I've felt this way for years. I'd love to have that someone who'd give me the dire care I can't provide for myself. Yes, loving myself is important, but I can't pull through alone. No one can, at some point in their life.
Well, I've gone from wanting to be loved and held and comforted to being addicted to the search just for the hopes of finding a pseudo-comfort in it.
That's not the worse part, though. I know it's bad, but I don't want to change because I feel like this is what I deserve, to go so low.
But here's the worst part: I'm considering this to be my life.
I hope I was able to keep this topic PG-13, but was also able to put it in a way you guys know what I mean. -
it’s okay to want to have someone caring and nurturing in your life. i understand this because i’m an age regressor. now, are you trying to say that you want to give your life up, as in you want someone else to be in control?
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Kinda.
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To downplay it for the sake of this forum, boy-chaser.
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yes, i understand how that feels because i’ve been in the same mindset. no, it’s not really healthy, but i do understand why you’re feeling this way. this is probably happening because you lack affection from your family and possibly even your friends. when this was happening to me, i was having a lot of family issues. my relationship with my dad was in a very low state, and i felt like my life should be in the hands of someone who “truly” loved and cared for me.
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Yes. You are exactly right. That's the reason.
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at this point, you need to teach yourself love and acceptance. i know how difficult it can be to practice self-love, but simply caring for yourself helps drastically. you need to remind yourself that you are here for a reason and you have plenty waiting for you in the future. i advise you not to rush anything, try to take thing slow with people. if you’re feeling lonely, you can find coping methods. this could be a hobby, interest, or even something so little that you can do everyday that makes you feel safe.
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Every time I find something that helps me, my parents take it away, even if it is healthy.
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which is why you need to be open and honest with your feelings. it’s most likely that your parents aren’t understanding how you feel. they seem strict and protective, so they must love and cafe for you, even if it doesn’t show too much. if you really open up to them, i’m sure they will understand that you are in a low spot in your life and you want to help yourself, which is difficult to do without their support.
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*care (i typed cafe)
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I'm trying. But, deep inside, I just want to pull away and do whatever on my own.
Would it be so wrong for just a little while? -
no, that’s completely normal, but you have to be honest with your parents about them holding you back from doing what you really want to do or being who you really want to be.
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I know. You're right. I just dread bringing it up again for them umpteenth time.
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