1. What is your age? Under 18 Years Old 18 to 24 Years Old 25 to 30 Years Old 31 to 40 Years Old 41 to 50 Years Old 51 to 60 Years Old Over 60 Years Old2. What is your gender? Male Female3. When you first told her you were engaged, how did she react? Why do you need another woman to take care of you! I am so happy for you, I knew you were the one. I will not come to the wedding!4. While you were planning your wedding, how much help did she offer? She wanted to wear a white dress, stad next to the groom, and have a speech. She went to all the important things he coun't attend. She was the maid of honor. She helped in any way she could. She didn't help very much or at all! She wanted everthing to be centered around her, and anything you asked her to help with she wouldn't do.5. When you bought your first house, What was he reaction? I thought you were going to live in the guest bedroom/house. Great! Do you need help decorating? She helped you move in. She never came to see the house, she didn't help you move in, and she has only been there a few time, you can count on 1 hand!6. When you plan get-togethers, parties, or Holiday events, She? She wants to be seated by your husband, cook the food because she thinks she is a better cook. Helps you plan, pick out decorations, and helps cook. Lets you make all the decisions and is just there for help. She never RSVP's, you ask her about it and she says she'll think about it. She never shows up.7. When you find out you are going to be parents, She? says " It's will look just like (Insert Husband Name). I will be the favorite. But i don't want to be called Grandma. So happy. Goes shopping with you when you husband is at work. Is there when you need someone to talk to Doesn't have much of a reaction. Doesn't think you would make a good mother.8. When the baby finally gets here, She? Buys the entire nursery, wants to watch the baby all the time. Is there when you need her, for anything. Points out what she thinks you are doing wrong. Gives advice that is not wanted nor is asked for. Thinks she is a better mother than you and tells you so.9. When you have a disareement, how does she handle how YOU feel? She goes crying to your husband, wants him to fix things. Sits down with you and talks it out, listens to what you have to say. Doesn't want to hear your side or anything, cries about what you have done and doesn't realize that itis your opinion and that she said what she felt but that doesn't make it the rigt way. She thinks she is right and you are wrong. She handles it like a c10. This disagreements you have with your husband, about his mother end up in him saying? "She is my mother, I Love her, she wants what is best for me!" " She is your mother-in-law and your friend, you are sorry and so is she, just go talk about it." " She is the way she is, just let her do what she wants to, and don't say anything to her about it. She may not be right but let her think she is!"11. Which one do you think she is? Mother that needs to let go. Mother that is nice to everyone, and is a giving person. Mother that has a lot of issuse and wants to be control.12. If you were to get a divorce and there were children involved what would she do? She would want her son to get custody, so she could help him raise your child. She would want to help you both out, and not want to involve that child in the messy parts. Make everythin g easy on everyone. She would want to try and get custody of your kids herself.