Relationship Evaluation Test

This is a quiz that will evaluate how healthy your relationship is with your partener, as well as past parteners. It can also help you improve your relationship or future relationships with anyone else.

Please note that this quiz can also help you become aware of the things you may need to improve within yourself and your opinions towards a relationship. This quiz is only ment to help people lead a happier life with their selves and others. Are you cuorious to see how healthy your relationship is? Do you want to make it a better one? Take this quiz and it can open your eyes or assure your love.

1. What is your age?
Under 18 Years Old
18 to 24 Years Old
25 to 30 Years Old
31 to 40 Years Old
41 to 50 Years Old
51 to 60 Years Old
Over 60 Years Old
2. What is your gender?
Male
Female
3. Do/Did you evaluate the potential partner as you would a friend?
Never
A Little
Mostly
Always
4. Do/Did you know your partner's beliefs about relationships?
No
A Little
Prety Much
Definitely
5. Could you have confused sex with love?
Not At All
Maybe
Mostly
Definitely
6. Did/Do you express needs and speak up for them clearly?
No, I don't have any needs
Every now and again
Most of the time
All the time
7. Do/Did you view yourselves as a team?
No, I do my thing and they do theirs
Only with certain things
Most of the time
Always
8. Do/Did you respect and manage differences?
No
With certain things
With a lot of things
All the time
9. Do/Did you talk and explore, and not assume? (If you don't understand or like something your partner is doing, do you ask about it and why he or she is doing it?)
I always assume first
With some things, but I can't help assuming
I try all the time, but sometimes I do assume
I never assume; I let them explain
10. Do/Did you solve problems as they arise?
No, I try to aviod them
Only when I feel the need
I do, but sometimes I don't really solve them
I always take the initiative and strive to make it work
11. Do/Did you negotiate?
No, why would a relationship need that?
I would, but I don't see a reason
Only when it seems to be needed
Always, because are negotiated and renegotiated all the time
12. Do/Did you listen, truly listen, to your partner's concerns and complaints without judgment?
No, I was too busy with my concerns
I try, but I can't help judging or thinking about something else
Most of the time, but sometimes I'm not in the mood
Yes, because that only helps a relationship grow
13. Do/Did you work hard at maintaining closeness?
Not really, we are already close
I just happens sometimes; I don't have to try
I worked at it but not that hard
All the time, because that helps keep the relationship strong
14. Do/Did you both take a long-range view and share it together? (marriage, kids, house)
No, I'm not looking for that
Not really, because you never know if the relationship will work
Sometimes, but I don't want to get too dreamy
Often, because that helps you know your expectations from your partner
15. Do/Did you stay well groomed?
I've never kept up with that
Only when we where dating
For a while, but I got kinda lazy
As often as I could
16. Do/Did you have pillow talk after sex?
I'm usually ready for bed
Only if they insist
Sometimes
I look forward to that
17. Do/Did either of you ever go to sleep angry?
All the time
Often
Sometimes
Never
18. Do/Did you apologize after being at fault and make the necesary actions?
I'm never at fault
Only when I really messed up
Most of the time, but sometimes I'm stubborn or forget to take action
Every time
19. How much dependancy do/did you have?
Dependancy is bad
A little
fairly dependant
Quite a bit
20. How much self-respect and self-esteem do you have?
Pretty low
A little
It comes and goes
I love myself
21. Do/Did you bring new interests into the relationship?
No
I don't want to mess things up
Only if I feel like they would like it
When ever I have a new intrest, I express it with them
22. Do/Did you share responsibilities?
I have my own
Not very much
Sometimes
We share them equaly
23. Do/Did you stay open to spontaneity?
I like everything planed
Not very much
Sometimes when I feel it
That always keeps a relationship interesting
24. Do/Did you maintain your energy and stay healthy?
I'm pretty lazy
I don't really keep up with that but I have energy
I go through phases
All the time
25. Do you recognize that all relationships have ups and downs and do not ride at a continuous high all the time?
A perfect relationship is always good
Yes, but there shouldn't be very many downs
26. Do/Did you make good sense of a bad relationship by examining it as a reflection of your beliefs about yourself?
No, it just wasn't ment to be
I never really thought to look at it that way
All the time, because it helps you grow as a person
27. Do you think that love is not an absolute, not a limited commodity that you're in of or out of?
That's absurd!
Fate will tell that one
Sure, that sounds right

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