Charity's Castle

Thread Topic: Charity's Castle

Charity
Joined: Jan 24, '14
Status: Advanced
Charity
Joined: Jan 24, '14
Status: Advanced
Dark22978
Joined: May 8, '12
Status: Hot Shot
if you knew half of what andi did to us you'd understand LOL
Charity
Joined: Jan 24, '14
Status: Advanced
ok yes but do you really need to stoop to her level? you have a choice to be the better person....
Dark22978
Joined: May 8, '12
Status: Hot Shot
I'm so sick of being the better person. Every time Andi pulled her garbage, Lysander and I were told we had to be the better people. We were told we had to apologize. In fact we would have never gotten back in the mess with her if she hadn't lied to us and said her friend David commit suicide. We both started talking to her again because we have hearts, and then the c--- turns around a few months later and says "Oh, sorry, that was a lie. I just wanted you guys to talk to me."
Dark22978
Joined: May 8, '12
Status: Hot Shot
And considering she was my former abuser, I take pleasure in being snarky occasionally. Rosio and I already talked and came to understanding terms (NOT friends, but I'm done being an ass). If Andi wants that, she can come to me. I'm done chasing after her. Until then? I'm going to say what I want and do what I want.

Btw, if she ever comments about attempting suicide again, I'm getting a hold of someone. Teacher, friend, home number, whatever. She may be a b---- but not even she deserves to die like that. Don't judge a book by its cover. I dislike her, but I won't let her kill herself. Not when she has some decent friends and some sort of life ahead of her.
Charity
Joined: Jan 24, '14
Status: Advanced
Ok.
Charity
Joined: Jan 24, '14
Status: Advanced
i guess thats fair.
Dark22978
Joined: May 8, '12
Status: Hot Shot
Definitely. Also, I could probably stand to loosen up around you, but I dunno. When you first got on here, you stood up to Carla (or whatever the f--- her "real name" is) and told her to form her own opinions. But it seems like you're just joining the bandwagon. Even before I started getting super cocky you were slightly hostile towards me but w/e. I'll back off unless you intentionally start something. That's all I have to offer.
Moyashi
Joined: Nov 21, '10
Status: Hot Shot
I never implied that you were trying to be my friend, honey. Clearly I'm talking about the fake s--- you pulled with Jill.
And when she tries to be the better person and move on, one of you open your mouths time and again. I even said I wanted to be done with it, but got tired of seeing it again and again.
And tbh, I may make my little comments once every month or so, but I don't make it a daily routine. Thank you very much. If I genuinely feel like saying something, I will, like I'm doing with you, a kid that doesn't know me at all.
"You have anger issues". Yeah, I probably do, but I have a plethora of reasons to be angry so it's not like those feelings come out of thin air.
I'm not perfect, but at least I never lied about serious s---, right after I thought my mate had passed away, mind you. So in terms of "better people", I'm still slightly better garbage.
Charity
Joined: Jan 24, '14
Status: Advanced
im hostile because all four of us were friends in the past and its ruined.
Dark22978
Joined: May 8, '12
Status: Hot Shot
How do you think I feel? One day I'm friends with everyone. Another day, one of them says choice words and disappears. The other starts slowly breaking away from me until they just completely cut me out. f---, even Carla over there used to be friendly. I have no idea what happened, even now I don't know the entire story. And unlike you, I'm the odd one out; you have two of 'em, I have no one but the friends I had aside from the friend group. If anyone deserves to be hostile it's me. I'm the one being cut out of the picture completely.
Charity
Joined: Jan 24, '14
Status: Advanced
its more like tough love than fake s---. if you want it done then do something about it. dont just sit there in your spoiled pants. @moy

ok but didn't you cut off andi in the past? why is it so different now? @dark
Dark22978
Joined: May 8, '12
Status: Hot Shot
TBH I'm spotty on her. Yeah, I miss her and all, but at the same time I finally realized how much of a massive dick she was. Majority of my anxiety and trust issues are thanks to her manipulation over four years. HOWEVER, I have noticed she appears to have changed. (At least, she's been pretty nice to everyone but me and Lysander.) And I don't know about you, but after having a long relationship/friendship for four years, it's a little hard to get rid of. Especially when they disappear for months and then show back up on a website they're almost never on.

The person I miss the most is Rvelez, but it's been made clear that she wants nothing to do with me as a friend. I don't like that, but I did get to hear her side and she listened to (most) of mine which was nice.

If I'm completely honest? I'm a person who is all about closure. Andi did not ever provide that. It's been a back and forth problem over all of these years. That's probably what's ticking me off the most. She refuses to own up to what she's done and runs away from her problems instead of talking about it. If she'd sit down and talk about anything for a second- privately or publicly- I'd probably be more willing to let go.

Another thing? She admitted to loving me still? And that's kind of hard to sit on but maybe that's just me.
Charity
Joined: Jan 24, '14
Status: Advanced
so just a talk will settle this?