I don't know what to do

Thread Topic: I don't know what to do

Horseluver
Joined: Mar 2, '11
Status: Experienced
2012-02-10 22:28:51
So, I really like this guy, and I feel like he likes me too, but sometimes he sends mixed signals. I thought I would get over him like I usually do with crushes, but it's not going away. I can't seem to get him out of my head. If I ask what to do, someone's gonna say tell him, but, if he doesn't like me, I don't want a friendship to be ruined. I don't know what to do, and you guys are always so helpful.
FLgirl92
Joined: Jan 15, '12
Status: Newbie
2012-02-10 23:50:12
It's hard when you have feelings for a friend. What I've learned is that you have to let a guy come to you. You can speed the process along by sending out signals of your own.
Horseluver
Joined: Mar 2, '11
Status: Experienced
2012-02-11 00:01:12
Okay... I'm just not good at his, so advice is really appreciated :)
Bluebird
Joined: Nov 25, '11
Status: Novice
2012-02-11 01:18:06
I might not be vey good on this subject but I agree with @FLgirl92 she knows what shes talking about. If he doesn't recognise the signals or he ignores them he might not be interested. Like I said I'm not the best at this subject. If only we could get into his mind. And guys say we're complicating.
FLgirl92
Joined: Jan 15, '12
Status: Newbie
2012-02-11 14:17:54
Do you not know what signals to put out? They're actually the same signals you would usually put out when you're in love. You can't help but smile when you're around them, or flatter them, or laugh at their jokes even when they didn't intend to be funny. I've been there before.
Horseluver
Joined: Mar 2, '11
Status: Experienced
2012-02-12 12:02:06
I guess I'm doing those things... But I don't know if he's catching them.