So I look at how people cheat on their loved ones
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Thread Topic: So I look at how people cheat on their loved ones
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If you really loved your significant other why would you throw something like that down the drain and just go with another person. It just really doesn't seem fair overall and well I guess I'm kind of guilty in the past of it but I stopped I just think that speaking my mind is a proper thing to do on this kind of topic. Life is too short to put another person in misery because you don't want to be with them. if you're going to cheat you might as well divorce break up with whatever one you're going out at the moment.
I try to look at it from their perspective but I just can't seeing two people break apart from a relationship because one person f---ed up and decided two go and be with another person it just kind of makes me feel uncomfortable even though I'm not in it and me being myself I try to think of it it from a psychological point of view I'm guessing that a lot of people aren't ready for what they refer to as love because the chemical makeup in your brain whenever you're feeling love is a specific element and some people are addicted to that element therefore some people are actually addicted to falling in love and not being in love.
Believe it or not there's also traumatising events where somebody who Falls and in love rather easily then others which is not a good thing for example somebody who has lost their mother's life has the odds of being much more easily sensitive and in quotations "falls in love easily". But then that could be a very bad thing because people who have that sensitive emotion end up having the same thing happen again which causes hurt on their so-called loved one. Basically the reason why most people cheat has some backstory behind it but I'm still trying to figure out why because the entire backstory behind cheating is psychological. feel free to discuss why you think people cheat. There has to be multiple different reasons why people do it. -
I think some people do it because their relationship to them , has gotten boring , but they also stil love the person but it is no exscuse
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I think some people do it to get more love because they never felt any love as a child but it still doesn't make it right.
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Agreed with Horse
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Usually when people cheat, yes they love the person that they are with. But some have a need to have affection. Or perhaps its just a fear they have. Somehow they grew up to see someone they care for in a great deal of pain because of relationships. Treated wrong, and just plain nasty. As they grew up, they started to fear being that person. To must never end up alone. They can love the person that they are with, but have such a fear of being alone and their partner leaving them, it seems wrong, but they have backups. They learned that being alone, broken, and scared was something they didn't want to be. Even if it hurt the others, they just didn't wish to be hurt like many before them.
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