Are you a Dom/me or a sub?

We are all either Dominant or submissive. Either a giver or taker. In every type of relationship, we see this dynamic. It is human nature. So which are you?

This quiz can help you figure out which category you fall into. Of course, it is just for fun, but the results might surprise you all the same. At the very least, you'll have fun taking it.

1. What is your age?
Under 18 Years Old
18 to 24 Years Old
25 to 30 Years Old
31 to 40 Years Old
41 to 50 Years Old
51 to 60 Years Old
Over 60 Years Old
2. What is your gender?
Male
Female
3. If you are at a restaurant and there is a problem with the service, what do you do?
Take it up with the waiter, then if nothing happens let it go.
Take it up with the waiter, then the manager then whoever I need to to get results.
Allow my partner to handle it.
4. During an argument with your partner, what do you do?
I argue back. I will not back down, no matter what.
I will argue a little but am the first to say sorry.
I do not argue back. I can't.
My partner does not dare argue with me.
5. If you and your partner are spicing things up in the bedroom, which would you rather? (choose only one)
To handcuff him or her.
For him or her to handcuff ME
To blindfold him or her.
For him or her to blindfold ME.
6. Would you rather...
Be on top?
Be on bottom?
Doesn't matter?
7. Would you rather...
Do things for your partner?
Have them do things for you?
8. Would you do anything your partner wanted, even if it was humiliating or embarrassing or painful?
No. They need to do what I say.
Yes, nothing would give me greater pleasure.
Possibly, depending on who it was.
9. Would you or do you enjoy making decisions for others or running their lives for them?
Yes and I am good at it.
No. I need someone to tell ME what to do.
Maybe, if they needed me to.
10. What is your opinion on punishment?
I would have no problem doling it out to someone who needed to be corrected.
I think I need to be punished sometimes.
I could go either way: be punished or the punisher.
11. Would you say you are...
Needy?
Demanding?
Easy-going?
Stern?
12. What is your opinion on pain? Pain is...
Beautiful.
Necessary.
Unavoidable.
A tool.
13. In past/present relationships, you were the...
Dominant partner
submissive partner

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