Please Help Me! I'm panicking! | Comments

No more comments please, I saw the follow up "quiz" they made about this and they have decided what to do!! Staying with aunts or something and giving it for adoption when its born.

AND don't rate this 10 stars - this is what happens when you rate 10 stars it gets on the front page!!!

Honey, whatever you do don't give up the baby or you will end up regretting it your whole life. I think you should tell your parents. Maybe they will get mad but just "tell them the truth!" I am being serious it's better if you just go out with it. I don't know maybe tell Caleb, your choice so he isn't surprised and get mad at you or anything. but please tell your parents they are the main source of what to do. And listen to them maybe they have some useful advise?

Honey, whatever you do don't give up the baby or you will end up regretting it your whole life. I think you should tell your parents. Maybe they will get mad but just "tell them the truth!" I am being serious it's better if you just go out with it. I don't know maybe tell Caleb, your choice so he isn't surprised and get mad at you or anything. but please tell your parents they are the main source of what to do. And listen to them maybe they have some useful advise?

I know we have never met, and probably never will, but I have advice for you, Lexi. (and I am only 11!)... 1.) Tell your parents, they should know what to do! If you are too afraid, write a note and slip it in their room. 2.) Dump that idiot! Caleb sounds like a TERRIBLE person, and you deserve someone better than that jerk. If he's already had "sex," why did you even like him?! 3.) Try to take care of the baby as best you can. Do NOT use abortion unless neccesary. Who knows, maybe you will marry a loving, kind father for him/her! Try not to put them up for adoption or foster care unless neccessary, because people could abuse th child. Maybe even worse... O_O I will be praying for you in secret, Lexi. My parents shall never know I took this quiz. I hope Caleb gets off your back.

A compassionate Froakie4444

Oh honey:( As many have already said, you need to tell your parents. They may be a angry but they will suppport you. It's also true that this guy took advantage of you. Don't tell him, he doesn't deserve to be part of your baby's life if you beleive he won't support you. True friends would support you. You need to also get prenatal vitamins and have a regimented diet for your baby. You should also keep up good exercise so you can more easily give birth. Lexi, you can find most of this information online. Good luck, and don't give up!

-Morgan

I think you should tell your mom an dad they can help and tell that girl for her to keep her boyfriend off of you! Find some REAL FRIENDS and don't care what people think of you it's YOUR LIFE and they should mind their own business! I hope this helps, I hope you feel better and I think you should keep your distance from that dude if he isn't gonna help if he does what he's suppose to do then you guys can work it out. Please joist don't do the wrong thing, talk to someone.

Its ok! Stay strong and don't give up. Tell someone before its too late! Tell your parents or a friend! You may get grounded but they WILL support you. Hang in there, this will be over soon enough :) Don't worry, somebody will be there to support you. :)

Good luck
-Josie

Oh lexi, we all make mistakes and although some mistakes may seem bigger than others u cannot let the past define who you are or what u will be. Yeah u had sex but that trust me many others have gone throught regretting their first time. I believe you should let your parents know about the pregnancy. They may not take the news well but if u are not going to abort the child that is developing inside you should at least take care of yourself. You're. 15. And maybe you feel that your life is already messed up but there is hope whatever your religion pray to your higher god and ask him for wisdom and guidance as you go through this rough time in your life. Things will get better because after the storms passes the sun will shine and u will be okay. I wish you the best during this time as you make sonme big decisions. DO NOT let anyone make you feel inferior because of what you did. Keep being strong. Xoxo

I so thought I posted a comment on this, but I guess I didn't. You probably don't look at the comments anymore, but here:

Don't be scared. Just take it day by day. It'll be alright. Tell your parents by starting from the beginning. Tell them that Caleb's (I think that was his name) girlfriend told him that he couldn't talk to you, and it was really hard on you, and after a while, you started crying because of it and you weren't thinking straight. Say that Caleb saw you and things spiraled out of control and that you are now pregnant. Your parents might be disappointed in you, but they shouldn't hate you because you are their child. I hope this helps you. Blessed be. ~Meg.

GOOD LUCK LEXI

I don't know what to do but I think you should tell your mom

Hey, Lexi.

Don't listen to them, you were hurting and you probably weren't thinking straight and.. things happen when people are upset (That guy took advantage of the situation but didn't think about the consequences that you will face). As a lot of people here said, you can't hide the baby forever. Try to keep the pregnancy if you can! Maybe your parents or other family members can look after the baby when it's born. You could even put it up for adoption but if you just can't see yourself going through this then use abortion as a last resort. It'd be better if you didn't have to use it. My friend gave birth at 15, been with her all the time and she says she made the right choice, right now her mum is helping her raise her daughter (and my god-daughter ^v^) and everything turned out all right. Hope it turns out fine for you too

Best wishes and luck to you and the baby!
-Micha

lexi

first of all i want you to know that watever happens, although it may hurt like hell, you will get hrough this. i cant even begin to imagine the panic, terror, and stress your probabley going throuh riht now. also know that God loves you alot whatever u do r if you have a relationship with him or not) and if you do pray, know that he will be here for you evem if all he does is listen if you need to talk to someone. Also know that even if telling your parents makes you terrified, panoked, and near hysterical, it is the right hing to do because they WILL help you throuh this even if they are astounded for a while. whether you want to see the baby when it grows up or not you could give it to a grandparent or uncle or you could put it ip for adoption or raise it. HOwever i belive abortion is cruel because it is just another human, just younger and without a say of its own. my aunt had an abortion . she regrets it all the timeand still cries about it 3 years later. if it is possible you

could home school or attend school until your "baby bump" is hard to hide. talk to you school councler or a friend first but make sure both are ENTIRLEY CONFIDENTIAL AND THEY WILL TELL NOONE. also know that however scary it is to tell your parents they will learn eventually unless you kill your child. I hope you know that the guy took advantage of you and even thouh yiu consented to sex, your parents will know that the guy made despicable move. I am not sure of your backgrounda or how this news will be taken but know that My prayers are wih you and yiu will get throuh this. Remember never to harm yourself, no matter how tempting. i know from experiance that it doesnt take away the pain or even make it dull. Take a couple of deep breaths. if you need to, take one more day to collect yourself, but tell yiur parents as soon as possible. although its fate rests in your hands, kmow it is not your right to take a life. God bless. I will pray for you :)

I'm sorry Lexi if they are bulling u ignore them like they are not even there and don't cry when they hurt u just ignore and let it go When u have ur baby if u have grandparents maybe they would be willing to take care of him/her until u are able to take care of him/her

Good luck
Taylor

oh im so sorry lexi I feel super bad tell your parents you made a mistake and are sorry stay pregnant dont kill the baby ask your parents to care for it or if you know someone near you who could do so could take care of it for you and are willing to give it to them unitil you have gratuated highschool hoped this helped

Hey Lexi, I'm sorry this happened to you.I'm a guy and I can understand everything that happened. NEVER get an abortion, no matter what this is a human life, give the best gift you could ever give to anyone. Give somebody life. Now, you are too young to keep th baby and his/her father probably won't be able or will not want to help you out, unless he's a nice guy. Give the baby as well as your self a good life. Choose the option to give him for adoption. If you really want to see your kid when he/she is older give the kid a teddy bear or something with a note on it saying your full name and saying your name is mommy or whatever. Everything happens for a reason, god loves you so much and he understands everything and he absolutely is, fast to forgive. On the matter of telling your parents, just break down in front of them and let it all out tell them everything and that you want to give it for adoption. Oh yeah let me just add how abortions ar carried out. Well first of all, it is murder by definition because they are taking a life without his/her consent or knowledge that it is going to happen, second of all, while the baby is in your womb, they will inject salt or something nasty to burn him alive and then they will force you to give birth to a dead baby. I'm sure none of us would like it if we were burned alive and killed when we were just in our mothers womb. Also, look at the option of homeschooling for the time you are pregnan to let things cool down at school and to not let anyone make fun of you for being pregnant, after everything is done just go to another school or somethig. :) here is what I would do, life is about choices, what will you choose with a life in your hands, a soul. God bless you.

Hi Lexi---

I'm so sorry to hear that you're panicking! Firstly, let me assure you that you are absolutely NOT ALONE. I know it feels isolating right now, but this does indeed happen all the time. Support is readily available--ask your folks, your doctor, your religious advisor, your teachers. Secondly, please, TELL YOUR FOLKS. I know that will seem like you can hardly bear that, and while there might--or might not--be some drama, once they come to terms with it themselves, I know they'll be in your corner. And you need to talk to them about this some time, so why put it off? The sooner everyone comes to terms with it, the sooner you can start breathing a sigh of relief. But you do need to talk to them, no matter what. And lastly, please, disregard any advice you get from us on what to do regarding your pregnancy: that's really none of our business. None at all. Instead, consult your support network and weigh their advice appropriately. I'd start with your folks, your doctor, and any spiritual advisor you may have, subject to your own principles--not theirs. But don't listen to us about that.

Lexi, I'm so sorry for you being in this situation and want you to know that you have my prayers and support. I have been in very similar situations myself and I know how you are feeling. My suggestions: 1 Tell your parents!! They will understand and can help you. 2 Stick with your commitment to not have an abortion. If you don't feel you are ready to be a mother you can give it to someone who can better care for him or her. I would offer to adopt it myself but I live in another country and the red tape will be too much. Try to keep your child out of the foster system if you can as there are a lot of neglecting/abusing people there. 3 Cut off relationships with that guy. While not trying to hurt you I would suggest that you shouldn't have gotten re-involved with him in the first place(again speaking from personal experience). If you need help or support in any way, please don't hesitate to contact me at [no emails]. I'm thinking of you. - Mavourneen

Please, please, please read!

Being a mother is hard, I know that. But you're too young. Abortion may be mean and seem wrong, but having a baby at your age is inappropriate and the only right option is the painful one. I'm sorry to hear your story, I really am. I don't like abortion either, but trust me, it is the correct choice. A baby will get in the way of your school work, and you'll end up failing, never getting a job and being homeless. Abortion makes sense in this situation. I'm so so sorry. Take it from a mother of 7 kids.

I feel SO bad for you!! I am only 11 but I still understand how scared you are! I really don't know what to do but know that your in my prayers and that I will be hoping for the best!

OMG i am so sorry talk to me later if u like i can help with these probs or try cuz this has never happened to me... ttyl

OMG I am so sorry!!!! tell everyone thats being meanto bug off and to stop being ass`s

iknow u like him Lexi,but u should aleast tell the truth about ur feelings. I know how u feel. once i had a crush on a boy in my class a my bff had dated him. i felt bad too. but i just got over it. mayB when u feel better u can get over it like i did.

well..i feel bad for this quiz, but lexi, i dont know you..

Please use the Internet to research places where you can safely surrender the baby, if abortion isn't an option. What happened isn't your fault. Caleb is older than you, almost an adult, and you were extremely emotional at the time; he clearly took advantage of you.

Remember, there are people who love you and care about you.