1. What is your age? Under 18 Years Old 18 to 24 Years Old 25 to 30 Years Old 31 to 40 Years Old 41 to 50 Years Old 51 to 60 Years Old Over 60 Years Old2. What is your gender? Male Female3. What are you looking forward to about having children the most? Buying the cutest little outfits and baby grows for him/her! Teaching him or her how to ride a bike! Arranging birthday parties with all his/her best friends! Teaching him or her how to play sports! Discovering his/her special talents and helping her show it! Teaching them to share and who knows- maybe i'll have more than one child.4. What would you like to see them do at school? Get a perfect attendence/behavoir record! At least, i hope... See them play for their school sports team and win at least one match! See them take part in a school talent concert or play. See them get good, no great grades! See them enjoy school- thats it! See them make lots and lots of friends! I want my child happy!5. What are you worried about having children? That my child might be a bit naughty in her "terrible twos" That he may be scared on his first day at school! That my child wont share with other children or may upset them! That teaching them to walk and talk may be--wait, how do you teach them to walk and talk? and potty training!! That they'll lose everything i'll buy for them...(sigh) That my child shall get lonely....6. What are you hoping your partner will like as a parent? Kind and gentle with them- like me! Disclplined but caring with them- like me! Treat them when they're good, but dont spoil them.... Patient with them. Simply to be there for them when they have a problem! Able to support the babys finacial needs!7. How will you sort out your childs emotional problems? Give him/her a hug and reassure her. Tell a teacher about his/her problems. Treat them to a chocolate bar or a special treat to cheer them up. Give them practicle advice. Talk to his/her sister/brother or your partner, asking them to their for them is they're sad again. Talk them through their worries in private- find out whats really going on!8. Pocket money time- how would you expect to dish it out? (Weekly.) Only give it to them if they say all they're pleases and thanks you. And all their table manners. Only give it to them if they agree to do a weekly chore of some discription. Give it to him/her ALWAYS, but give extra pocket money if you think they've been good. Give it to him/her ALWAYS, unless they've been exceptionly bad. Give it to him/her ALWAYS, or offer a alternative small treat of some sort. Only give it to them if they've got on with the rest of the family and have avoided rows.9. Imagine your children/child as teenager/s- How will you deal with them at that, ur....usually akward stage? Take them to a cinema or resturant once a month, so they can unwind from all the homework and problems. Take them to team building classes once a week so they know how to behave. Make sure they know you love them and believe in them- and at the end of the day, thats all you really can do at that stage. Talk to the school- make sure they're aware of your childs feelings. Give them a private chat on growing up and how it effects you. Try and be a model parent- and hope they follow your example.10. Ekk, your still teenage (13) child now has a girlfriend/boyfriend. Your reaction? Make sure this boy/girl is nice and not a bad influence. Make sure to give your child some privacy and not to apprantly embaress him by asking akward questions. Listen to them talk about him/her and take them seriously. They're obviously happy about this and you should appreciate that. Make sure your child is kind to this girl/boy and if hes going to dump her that he does it politely. Be honest- you feel thirteen is a bit too young to be having a relationship.let them down gently. Ask wheather your child would like to see some photos of you and your partner when you just got together- he/she may enjoy them!11. Rewind back to when your child was just three and is having problems sleeping as he/she is afraid of the dark. What do you do? Lie with them untill they sleep. Explain gently theirs nothing bad in the dark. Buy a night light for them. Ask wheather its anything more serious like a problem stopping them from sleeping. buy some lavender and a relaxation cd for them. Get your family cat/dog or you childs sibling to sleep in the same room as her for comfort.12. And finally, how are you feeling about having children? Overjoyed! Cant even discribe the feeling! Suprised, having a child was an accident, but a very happy one! Cant wait! Nine months seems such a long time! A bit nervous of wheather i'll be a good parent, but really happy! Proud, im sure they'll be wonderful! Grateful, ive been trying to concieve for a while!