HELP
Thread Topic: HELP
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LoveO
Joined: Jan 27, '12
Status: Newbie | 2012-02-13 16:41:15 |
| My sister is dating a guy that is 7 years older than her! They've been texting each other for two weeks now and my sis really loves this guy. They met through my sister's friend, but I don't trust the friend or the guy. My sis and this guy live across the country from each other, but they talk about going to see each other. He's on probation right now, don't know why, but that's horrible! He asked her hand in marriage and she said yes! (Over text) Please help, I don't want my sister to get hurt or throw her life away for him. What should I do??? | |
Kierra_LOVE
Joined: Jul 6, '11
Status: Junior | 2012-02-13 16:45:47 |
| ..............woah...you should talk to her | |
I Forgot My Name
Joined: Dec 20, '11
Status: Novice | 2012-02-13 16:47:55 |
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Tell your parents. How old is she? | |
Neuro Nougami
Joined: Jul 27, '11
Status: Novice | 2012-02-13 16:54:52 |
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Tell your parents. Duh. I don't mind if my little Momoko asks this young male drummer who's 6 years older so long as she waits until she's 18 (she has to anyway). | |
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LoveO
Joined: Jan 27, '12
Status: Newbie | 2012-02-13 17:14:18 |
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She's 15 and he's 22. I've tried telling my parents but she lied and told them that he's only 16. | |
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FLgirl92
Joined: Jan 15, '12
Status: Newbie | 2012-02-13 17:14:30 |
| That is a little problematic. It depends on her age. If she's a 17-year-old dating a 24-year-old, it's alright so long as she is mature enough to handle it. But if she is 12 and he's 18, or anything like that, it's borderline pedophilia. | |
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FLgirl92
Joined: Jan 15, '12
Status: Newbie | 2012-02-13 17:16:02 |
| Okay yea, 15 and 22 is messed up. PS you're parents bought that? Have they asked him if he's in school or anything? | |
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I Forgot My Name
Joined: Dec 20, '11
Status: Novice | 2012-02-13 17:17:13 |
| That is messed up... | |
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LoveO
Joined: Jan 27, '12
Status: Newbie | 2012-02-13 17:33:43 |
| Yeah ik it's messed up!:( Well they've only been texting so my perents haven't said anything about talking to him yet. Mabey I should suggest that so they can see the truth? | |
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I Forgot My Name
Joined: Dec 20, '11
Status: Novice | 2012-02-13 17:36:46 |
| That'd be good. Ask them to maybe pay extra a month so they can see her texts/ get her phone one day and go through her messages. | |
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AZY
Joined: Dec 10, '11
Status: Novice | 2012-02-13 17:41:06 |
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tell her not 2 marry him he's 7 years older than her WOWWW HES WAY TO OLD TO MARRY A 15 YEAR OLD GIRL JUST SAYING OKKK | |
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LoveO
Joined: Jan 27, '12
Status: Newbie | 2012-02-13 17:43:57 |
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I forgot my name - Ok but what if she justs deletes all of her texts?? AZY - Ik that, but she Loves him! Idk why, but she won't listen to me. | |
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AZY
Joined: Dec 10, '11
Status: Novice | 2012-02-13 17:49:00 |
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then she's weird nobody ik will marry a guy that is 7 years older than her even if she loves himm he's gonna die first okay not being mean | |
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I Forgot My Name
Joined: Dec 20, '11
Status: Novice | 2012-02-13 17:51:04 |
| If they pay extra, if she deletes them they can still see them. And don't tell her that they're checking her phone. Just when she's acidentally left her phone in the other room, grab it and give it to your parents. If they aren't there at the time, hide it. | |
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LoveO
Joined: Jan 27, '12
Status: Newbie | 2012-02-13 17:52:13 |
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Ik he will, I mean he's already wanted to commit suicide.. She said she'll wait till she's 18 to marry him, but I don't want to see her get hurt and ruin her life by this stupid love thing. |
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